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Havetodothis40

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I can understand that.  She want to give you some semblance of space and privacy about this issue.  You might need that down the road.

I debated telling my XGF about this site and my journals during the upswings in our relationship.  I wanted to be an open book for her.  I told her about yourbrainonporn.com and that I found a spot to journal about what was happening.  She didn't seem to want to know more.

Remember she has a lot to process about this as well.  So let her move at her own pace.
 

Oldmanme

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Thanks, that's kinda how I feel. She's very supportive about it, just said she didn't realize it was such a problem, meaning the ED thing. Says she's fine the way we are. Maybe she's right, but I'd just like to get my mojo back. It's a pride thing, I guess. So I'm going to follow your lead & see how it goes. Thanks for the input.
 

Brooklyn Jerry

Active Member
Oldmanme, I haven't told my SO about this site. I don't think she would appreciate some of the intimate details I have posted.
 

Oldmanme

Member
I think it's ok with my so that I'm doing this, & I think she appreciated it that I can be totally open with her, as am I. I just don't think she understands the whole porn thing & how her guy could get addicted to it. She has never wanted for us to watch together.

Anxious to see if it has an impact on our relationship. Didn't know if you saw my post where she's about 1 1/2 hours away, so ours is not a daily contact.
 
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