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funny_bunny

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One more thing: I contacted school councelor and she neither soothed nor raised my worries. Since you all have gone through puberty and have personal experience with this matter... should I be worried? I also would like you to take a look at that page. Trust me, it does not pose any threat to an adult, pictures are absolutely harmless https://rg-leotard.com/artistic_gymnastics/artistic_leotards. I apologize for bringing up my problem in this thread, but I don't really have a person to talk to regarding this matter. And you know, it's a lot easier to talk about this stuff with complete strangers. Thanks for any advice.
 
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malando

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funny_bunny said:
Hi guys. Don't want to seem rude, but I'm here not with my personal matter... well it's personal, but it doesn't involve me per se. I've a son Brian (14) and recently cought him doing... well you know what I'm talking about (I never knock on the door - stupid habit). The matter is not what he was doin'g, it's totally normal for his age. Obviously he ran out the room all humiliated, I didn't even have time to calm him down. Anyway, the reason I'm writing here is what I saw on the screen of his computer... Well it wasn't porn, it wasn't even naked or barely dressed women... It was a catalog of sports wear with girls his age or even youger. Isn't a boy his age supposed to be attracted to older women?
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Actually it's more normal for young adolescents to be attractive to people their own age. Older women are intimidating and confusing to boys. I wouldn't be concerned about that aspect of what you found - only that he might be in the embryonic stages of developing a porn interest. I would be putting my energies into how you can educate him on the risks and perils of becoming a porn user.
 
OrangeSpider

OrangeSpider

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still holding on, 5 days gone, still strong, obviously the hard days are the one coming on. I hope I can keep my eyes on the prize, free from this slavery.

funny_bunny, I agree with Malandos words, hope that helps you out man.
Actually it's more normal for young adolescents to be attractive to people their own age. Older women are intimidating and confusing to boys. I wouldn't be concerned about that aspect of what you found - only that he might be in the embryonic stages of developing a porn interest. I would be putting my energies into how you can educate him on the risks and perils of becoming a porn user.
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I think they are golden.
 
OrangeSpider

OrangeSpider

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Restarting again. Got a little anxious and was alone; should have gone for a run, but instead what Im already wired to do; shit!

 
ImInControl

ImInControl

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hey OrangeSpider
Not giving up on you maan :) let us know how if you are doing good.
even if you relapsed, doesnt matter - the bus goes every day , you can start over ... but im sure you are secretly killing it and sticking to the program!..

all the best
 
OrangeSpider

OrangeSpider

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Hey guys, have been down the rabbit hole a few times and have just recently started to wake up from all the mess. Want to give it another try, really need to. Hope the best for me.
 
OrangeSpider

OrangeSpider

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Have been away for some weeks, sorry guys; but Im still holding up! Im not counting or anything (forget that OCD s**t), I just wanna live free! Still struggle with being alone in my office in front of the computer, I automatically put my hand in my pants (so automatic), I need to quit that. Im also avoiding at all costs to having to be alone in the office, I try my best to get my work done during the day in a public space.
Thats my update guys, hope you are all holding strong.
 
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