Last attempt to quite porn
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Do or die
Respected Member
Feeling good that i am on way again. Relapse can't stop me.
my goal is to complete day 1 first.
i take it as first step of rebooting:
step 1:
today i need to understand that pmo actually leading a problem in my life.
just i think that its impossible for me to nofap because i am relapsing frequently, but successful rebooters knows that its possible.
at this step 1 i need to take a strong decision to do reboot.
at this stage i must know about basics of rebooting and nature of urges.
from today i am going to write each and every thing that helping me in my reboot.
my goal is to complete day 1 first.
i take it as first step of rebooting:
step 1:
today i need to understand that pmo actually leading a problem in my life.
just i think that its impossible for me to nofap because i am relapsing frequently, but successful rebooters knows that its possible.
at this step 1 i need to take a strong decision to do reboot.
at this stage i must know about basics of rebooting and nature of urges.
from today i am going to write each and every thing that helping me in my reboot.
Do or die
Respected Member
After relapsing today I not sad enough to think everything is wrong now.
Tomorrow is A new chance for me. From tomorrow I should do it.
From nov 18 to dec 18 . It's a month journey I am planning.
And i know this is my life's biggest adventure journey. Because I am going to win against myself. Creating new mindset of winner.
I look at this relapse as a hole in my boat. And I need to fix it
And first thing I did is I learned this relapse. How it is started from afternoon today. And at end I relapsed.
The porn is not my real problem.
The mindset is problem. From now I focusing on creating a correct mindset and a correct pathway to reach my goal.
Yes I am at half way, I can do it again. I know I will not repeat my mistakes again.
Tomorrow is A new chance for me. From tomorrow I should do it.
From nov 18 to dec 18 . It's a month journey I am planning.
And i know this is my life's biggest adventure journey. Because I am going to win against myself. Creating new mindset of winner.
I look at this relapse as a hole in my boat. And I need to fix it
And first thing I did is I learned this relapse. How it is started from afternoon today. And at end I relapsed.
The porn is not my real problem.
The mindset is problem. From now I focusing on creating a correct mindset and a correct pathway to reach my goal.
Yes I am at half way, I can do it again. I know I will not repeat my mistakes again.
Do or die
Respected Member
Today is 19th November
My plan is to complete
7 days at 24th November.
10 days at 27th November
14 days at 1 December
21 days at 8 December
28 days at 15 December
35 days at 22 December
42 days at 29 December
49 days at 5 January 2020
56 days at 12 January 2020
63 days at 19 January
70 days at 26 January
77 days at 2 February
84 days at 9 February
91 days at 16 February.
98 days at 23 February
. And end of my goal that is 100 days completion at 25th February 2020
My plan is to complete
7 days at 24th November.
10 days at 27th November
14 days at 1 December
21 days at 8 December
28 days at 15 December
35 days at 22 December
42 days at 29 December
49 days at 5 January 2020
56 days at 12 January 2020
63 days at 19 January
70 days at 26 January
77 days at 2 February
84 days at 9 February
91 days at 16 February.
98 days at 23 February
. And end of my goal that is 100 days completion at 25th February 2020
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wecandoit
Guest
That's the mindset to have. Avoid binges because binges drain you and mess up your brain. If it happens to relapse, do it only once and don't edge for hours. A 15 minutes PMO session is not 5 hours of edging. Only 2 PMO in 19 days is significant. I wish I could say the same (but this is another story). Anyway, like you said, every relapse teaches you things. Pay attention to them.