So there's good and bad news to report. First the good news, I'm 135 days PMO free today. Recovery is going decently well, I seem to be able to have sex with my wife without ED meds pretty reliably, which was the main concern I had going into recovery, and was one of the biggest reasons I decided to kick the PMO habit.
The idea of spending hours masturbating to porn has come to seem a little ridiculous to me now, and I get a little grossed out thinking about the type of stuff I was watching before I started my recovery. I'm looking forward to continuing to have normal sex with my wife and just enjoying being married and in love. We've been together for 28 years, married for 23, and I'm only recently finding out she is game for just about anything sexually, so I feel lucky to have her as a partner. We talked about it recently, and she said she's only started to feel totally comfortable opening up about sexual things with me in the last few years. She grew up in a strict, ultra-conservative Christian family, so sex was always a bit of an issue for us in terms of what she felt comfortable doing. In the past few years however, she has widened her horizons into all kinds of new things.
Now, for the bad news, I have again peeked at porn several times over the past week. Once again, it started with Reddit pictures and then progressed to tube sites. No PMO, but several short sessions of watching porn. I'm really disappointed in myself, and I'm again committing to being completely porn-free starting today. This is again Day 1 porn-free. Last night I had a lot of trouble sleeping, and got up, grabbed my phone, and looked at porn. It didn't surprise me, as I had looked at porn a few days before, and I knew my old habit might return if I felt stressed or anxious, which I did both last night.
Leonidas, thank you for your comments. I'm a little conflicted on the masturbation question. I have masturbated several times during my recovery period, not to porn, but to fantasies/memories which I try to keep centered on my wife. In the early days of my recovery, I tried to masturbate a few times, without porn, and was unable to get hard. Now I can get hard and MO with no images in front of me, just my mind, which I try to keep blank or just focused on my wife. It's progress, I think. I don't do it often, only once in a while when I feel like it might stop me from PMO'ing. Ideally, I'd like to get to the point where I've mastered my desires and don't need to masturbate at all, but I'm not there yet.
Thanks for reading everyone, and good luck!