BlueHeronFan
Respected Member
I think I can relate, but I have never thought about it in these terms.
I know, for me, relationship stress (break-ups, disappointments, etc.) have been big triggers for me. I think it's sort of like porn isn't what I really want, but it is always there, reliable, and "good enough" for my addicted brain. I have definitely turned to porn when I have felt like real people have let me down (which is unfair, but when are addicted brains fair?)
I'm loving your deep reflections. Understanding what makes us tick is a great way to progress in our recovery, and your thoughts and questions have really stretched me to think about things in new ways, and that's an awesome way to keep recovery from getting stale. Thanks a lot and keep it up!
I know, for me, relationship stress (break-ups, disappointments, etc.) have been big triggers for me. I think it's sort of like porn isn't what I really want, but it is always there, reliable, and "good enough" for my addicted brain. I have definitely turned to porn when I have felt like real people have let me down (which is unfair, but when are addicted brains fair?)
I'm loving your deep reflections. Understanding what makes us tick is a great way to progress in our recovery, and your thoughts and questions have really stretched me to think about things in new ways, and that's an awesome way to keep recovery from getting stale. Thanks a lot and keep it up!