Hi All, I have been married for 32 years to a wonderful man who like many have an issue with porn. This is round 3 of quitting. He is an EXTREMELY strong minded individual (in the sense when he sets his mind on something he gets it done quickly and without fail, with the exception of the porn issue). The last 2 times he quit he did it with no help of any sort, just set his mind to it.
He is willing to go to therapy (at my request) to help regain my trust, but he truly believes therapy is a waste of time. I also feel that therapy will be a waste of time if this is his perspective. I am wondering if this Reboot program can work without the need for professional help.
I am also wondering from your perspectives about the "babysitting" factor. I see many talking about dummy phones and covenant eyes...Is this helpful for you or is it just for the partner who's trust you are hoping to regain?
I love everything about my husband, and we are SO good together. Yes, I am again devastated, but I want to fix us and help in whatever way works best.
He is willing to go to therapy (at my request) to help regain my trust, but he truly believes therapy is a waste of time. I also feel that therapy will be a waste of time if this is his perspective. I am wondering if this Reboot program can work without the need for professional help.
I am also wondering from your perspectives about the "babysitting" factor. I see many talking about dummy phones and covenant eyes...Is this helpful for you or is it just for the partner who's trust you are hoping to regain?
I love everything about my husband, and we are SO good together. Yes, I am again devastated, but I want to fix us and help in whatever way works best.