Virgin and porn addict?

[Un1111]

I'm 20 years old and in the same position.  No experience with girls.  PMO seriously fucks you.  Destroys your ability to connect with real girls naturally. 


I've done the same thing.  Asked the question of what girls thought on various sites, and nothing positive.  Here's the simple answer. 

Younger girls.    Start with what the legal age is in your country.  Or younger, but that's your business, I hold no judgements.  I've considered going for 16 year old's myself.   

Not even for sex, but seriously just relationship experience wise...  I feel I'm WAY outgunned by girls my age.  They've all fucked multiple guys and had over 100 sexual experiences I would imagine. 


16 year olds, 18 year olds, whatever is legal bro.

I respect your opinion, but I that's out of the question, I couldn't take advantage of a young female for myself needs. It would have to be a serious relationship, which is what I would struggle at.

 

[Un1111]

You know I was in constant fear of being a virgin and letting it define me, rather than trying to see myself in a new light. Even now, I fear relationships, it just seems like the world is revolved around self pleasure. The constant fear of being rejected, rather than simply accepting it. Some people just have better luck than others, regarding relationships. But that being said, it's not like that I am not aware of my own faults, deep down I know you just have to try and see what happens. are there people here that have been through similar experience, being a late virgin and a porn addict managing to break this cycle?, what was it like and did it work out for you. What did your girlfriend think, did you ever tell them?. Don't worry it's not like I'm still hating myself right now, I seem to be doing ok. Just curious if there is other people and maybe share thoughts on this matter?