Good afternoon!
New to the forum, just posted my initial journal entry in the 30-39 forum.
Had a few questions I was hoping to get some feedback on that seemed out of place in any of the other forums.
1) With any luck I wont P&M ever again, or at the very least on extremely rare occasions. How far back does sex set you back if you aren't masturbating and don't actually run into the PIED issue? My thought is that if I can get it up and keep it up for sex that it will make me feel better, which will put me in a better position/mindset the next time I try. I am only 5 days in to my reboot and don't plan on trying anything until the 3-4 week mark. But I don't want to throw away any progress I have gained on a hypothetical if it isn't likely to yield results. I ask this question understanding that everyone is different. For context, I have had ED issues a handful of times when my wife and I were with other partners (either together or separately.) Recently that finally spilled into my wife and I's solo sex life, even with Sildenafil on board. That is what prompted my reboot.
2) Assuming scenario two DOESN'T work out. Does any sexual contact set you back? If I wanted to utilize the down time, so to speak, to become a master at cunnilingus, for example. Will I be screwing myself over?
New to the forum, just posted my initial journal entry in the 30-39 forum.
Had a few questions I was hoping to get some feedback on that seemed out of place in any of the other forums.
1) With any luck I wont P&M ever again, or at the very least on extremely rare occasions. How far back does sex set you back if you aren't masturbating and don't actually run into the PIED issue? My thought is that if I can get it up and keep it up for sex that it will make me feel better, which will put me in a better position/mindset the next time I try. I am only 5 days in to my reboot and don't plan on trying anything until the 3-4 week mark. But I don't want to throw away any progress I have gained on a hypothetical if it isn't likely to yield results. I ask this question understanding that everyone is different. For context, I have had ED issues a handful of times when my wife and I were with other partners (either together or separately.) Recently that finally spilled into my wife and I's solo sex life, even with Sildenafil on board. That is what prompted my reboot.
2) Assuming scenario two DOESN'T work out. Does any sexual contact set you back? If I wanted to utilize the down time, so to speak, to become a master at cunnilingus, for example. Will I be screwing myself over?