Hello, after four month of struggling with masturbate addiction (during that time I haven't always been able to hold back, but the trend is progressive) I feel better with my erection during intimacy with my partner. But Istill have problem with delayed ejaculation. I ejaculate every time I masturbate to porn. Masturbating without porn is harder but also finish with ejaculation. In those five months, I ejaculated only four times during sex with my partner.
My partner is beautiful, I love them, but sex with them still feel much less exciting than masturbation so often I feel bland during sex and ejaculation is not achieved.
I see it is strictly connected with the feeling of blandness of real sex in comparison with masturbation to porn or erotic pics.
But I started to worry is it curable, or maybe it is hopeless and incurable to me...
Maybe it takes too long... Is there a hope for me?
Well, it's so easy to get aroused and ejaculate to porn. So the causes are therefore not biological. Also my partner is very attractive.
But... although I REALLY enjoy sex with him, I don't get the level of arousal I get when I masturbate. And the ejaculation is delayed or completely off.
My partner is beautiful, I love them, but sex with them still feel much less exciting than masturbation so often I feel bland during sex and ejaculation is not achieved.
I see it is strictly connected with the feeling of blandness of real sex in comparison with masturbation to porn or erotic pics.
But I started to worry is it curable, or maybe it is hopeless and incurable to me...
Maybe it takes too long... Is there a hope for me?
Well, it's so easy to get aroused and ejaculate to porn. So the causes are therefore not biological. Also my partner is very attractive.
But... although I REALLY enjoy sex with him, I don't get the level of arousal I get when I masturbate. And the ejaculation is delayed or completely off.