The other day my husband and were eating breakfast and I had showed him something on my phone and he was looking at me when he locked on to a woman walking out of the restaurant. I said in the same conversationAl tone I had been using, “Why don’t you just follow her out of the restaurant?”
He didn’t deny it. He said what were you saying and I said never mind. I have to be truthful it hit me like a ton of bricks. He even said the minute I said it he realized what he was doing. We then had an okay day but with crappy moments. My self esteem took a big hit. I was very sad off and on. These things can just make it feel like we are back in the middle Of it again. I know it was trauma response. we talked at length about it. He said he realized and didn’t deny Like he would have before. I talked it out with him on how I felt.
The next day we met my brother and his wife at the state fair and had a great time. No worries. But in that moment….ugh!
He didn’t deny it. He said what were you saying and I said never mind. I have to be truthful it hit me like a ton of bricks. He even said the minute I said it he realized what he was doing. We then had an okay day but with crappy moments. My self esteem took a big hit. I was very sad off and on. These things can just make it feel like we are back in the middle Of it again. I know it was trauma response. we talked at length about it. He said he realized and didn’t deny Like he would have before. I talked it out with him on how I felt.
The next day we met my brother and his wife at the state fair and had a great time. No worries. But in that moment….ugh!