Guys, rebooting sounds so simple. Obviously it is challenging, but what I am SLOWLY figuring out is there is just so much more to it than I thought. Everyone says stay away from PMO. Your problems will be solved and you'll live happy ever after. After almost a year of rebooting I have little to show for it. Learning from my own experience and troubles i have found there is a lot to it. People say get wired to real women. So now that i wasn't watching porn i was eye fucking women on the street. I thought if just physically looking at them and getting myself turned on that I was making progress. They are real women, in real life, so whats the problem? Apparently that isn't the proper route. This is just one example of what I'm talking about. I don't know how to think. I don't know when it is acceptable 'to get turned on' if you will. I just don't get it! They say there is no simple solution to this problem and everyone has to do it their own way. In other words there is no list of do's and don'ts. But i really wish their was. I don't know what to do and not to do other than not to PMO. I want to rewire but i don't know how. I don't want to get a GF and not be able to have sex with her. I don't think she would really appreciate that either.