enablerblue
Member
Hello
My husband and I have separated due to PMO and the destruction it/lying has caused in our relationship. I am not sure if we will be able to recover.
We have some good days.
He asks me to text him pics of myself for him to M to. He says he is not looking at P anymore. I believe him, but I think he is fooling himself into thinking M to my pics and not P is helping him rewire.
I'm confused as to weather this is a good idea or not during his reboot. He rarely has any physical contact with me, in person. We have had sex a few times since, and he has difficulty keeping an erection.
Am I just replacing P by sending him pics of myself? It seems like it is still artificial stimulation. He can O no problem with my pics, yet still has trouble while with me.
I feel like I'm being conned again. He is just replacing pics of many girls, with pics of me. When he is with me he still can't perform.
This is all so confusing.
My husband and I have separated due to PMO and the destruction it/lying has caused in our relationship. I am not sure if we will be able to recover.
We have some good days.
He asks me to text him pics of myself for him to M to. He says he is not looking at P anymore. I believe him, but I think he is fooling himself into thinking M to my pics and not P is helping him rewire.
I'm confused as to weather this is a good idea or not during his reboot. He rarely has any physical contact with me, in person. We have had sex a few times since, and he has difficulty keeping an erection.
Am I just replacing P by sending him pics of myself? It seems like it is still artificial stimulation. He can O no problem with my pics, yet still has trouble while with me.
I feel like I'm being conned again. He is just replacing pics of many girls, with pics of me. When he is with me he still can't perform.
This is all so confusing.