Struggle Within
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Today is my first day trying a new approach and beginning this journal. I am grateful that I have found this forum as I believe making my addiction public is exactly what I need to do to have success.
I?m 33 years old and I have been addicted to porn for 20 years. I?ve tried to quit countless times during those 20 years. I?ve deleted my entire stash many, many times and I?ve gone as long as 6 months porn free on multiple occasions.
In most cases, I fail after just two weeks of effort. But I?ve never kept a journal before, and I?ve never used a forum before. I?ve always fought this on my own in complete secrecy.
I have a wife and two children. My main trigger to use porn is when I am home alone. I get a huge rush of adrenaline when I am home alone and feel a very strong urge to begin using. This has become a major issue recently because I work from home. This change caused me to majorly binge in my usage and I am no longer being productive at work at all. My career has been growing rapidly and I have been given every opportunity to be successful and I have been sabotaging myself with this addiction.
If I refocus my energy away from porn and back to my career I am going to be a very good provider for my family. If I refocus my energy away from porn and back to my wife and children, I am going to be a much better more attentive, more loving husband and father.
I have so much to gain my quitting.
Since I usually fail after two weeks, my first goal is simply to go 30 days.
I?m 33 years old and I have been addicted to porn for 20 years. I?ve tried to quit countless times during those 20 years. I?ve deleted my entire stash many, many times and I?ve gone as long as 6 months porn free on multiple occasions.
In most cases, I fail after just two weeks of effort. But I?ve never kept a journal before, and I?ve never used a forum before. I?ve always fought this on my own in complete secrecy.
I have a wife and two children. My main trigger to use porn is when I am home alone. I get a huge rush of adrenaline when I am home alone and feel a very strong urge to begin using. This has become a major issue recently because I work from home. This change caused me to majorly binge in my usage and I am no longer being productive at work at all. My career has been growing rapidly and I have been given every opportunity to be successful and I have been sabotaging myself with this addiction.
If I refocus my energy away from porn and back to my career I am going to be a very good provider for my family. If I refocus my energy away from porn and back to my wife and children, I am going to be a much better more attentive, more loving husband and father.
I have so much to gain my quitting.
Since I usually fail after two weeks, my first goal is simply to go 30 days.