In retrospect, I can see how this whole period of frequent MO the last few weeks have been nothing but a symptom of low dopamine, and just like the addict I am, the cravings appeared and I gave in. I get cravings for junk food and my diet has shifted more and more towards pizza and such food since I again started restricting my MO habit.
So, my plan now is to accept the hardship of reducing the 2 mayor factors in my life that effect high surges of dopamine. MO and junk food. The aim of this is to get my brain back to "normal". Of course I know my video gaming isn't helping, but I don't see this as a real problem to my health at the moment. Maybe it will have to go also, along the road.
I now feel certain that the reason I ALWAYS get depressed and withdraw from stuff is MO and junk food. These two create firstly a hangover I don't like, and secondly really hold off my reboot from PMO.
In response to this I have set the goal of 14 days for my MO, to give me some better chance to recuperate, and from there on, the most important thing I need to focus on is not binging. That means, after 14 days have passed, I can choose either to MO or to increase my goal to 30 days. Should I choose to MO after 14 days, I can only do it once and after that reset my counter to 14 or more days. The intention is to reach 30 days no MO.
So, note to self, if I come here when the cravings hit: DON'T DO IT!
What should I do instead? I think the best way to deal with it is to just be mindful of the craving, and looking at it directly. Not follow my habit of trying to eliminate the craving. The secret here is that, actually, the craving does not last very long, its just a thought/feeling, and the nature of such things are not solid. They will disappear by themselves.
This is the time to really put my theoretical knowledge into practice. I know I talk big, and I aspire to match my aspiration with my actions.
My brother once told me that it takes about 30 days to make a new habit, and just applying this technique for 30 days will make it easy!
SETI, when you read this again and have a craving, just trust your own wisdom and don't act on the craving! Watch it. It dissolves.