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DayByDay said:freefromwinternight said:The more I think about the escort idea, the more I think it's a bad idea. I definitely don't want my first experience to be like the story of some guy I read on reddit. I'm not going to post it because it definitely contains trigger warnings, but I didn't get triggered by them for once. He basically said it felt like he was still a virgin at the end of it. The woman he chose was very good-looking, according to him, yet at the time he wrote the post several hours later he said he couldn't even remember her face very well. That's not what I want. At the very least what I want is with some kind of emotional connection. That's the bare minimum. Hopefully reaching out, even if it is online (due to difficulty meeting women in the offline world), will provide that for me and whoever I connect with.
Hey man it! Its good to hear that your journey is going well and that your are coping with the cravings. My own opionion on an online date would be to make sure that you have some sort of chemistry with the lady because if you didnt it has pretty much the same outcome of getting an escort. Id also be very cautious if it turns into a one night stand as it may then envolve you chasing which could then lead to a relapse. Just my two cents.
But keep going strong man. Day 34 is really good and you should be proud!
Thanks for the support. I'm not wanting to go out with her for the sole purpose of getting laid, no - I just figure that dating is a better way to get emotional sex than paying through the nose for one of the most personally risky activities that a man could do with himself. (Screwing an escort.) Assuming there is even chemistry with this girl and that she likes me back.