Update day 32
The last couple of days I found myself being restless, eager for having sex. I did not sleep well and noticed a few urges, but these are now easy to get rid of. My cuddle buddy stayed over this week. We went to bed together. She wanted to sleep and I had a really hard time to accept that. When I want sex, I want it now. But of course I know this is not the way things work, only with porn. So I made a new deal with myself and with her, since she didn't like my reaction when she told me she didn't want to have sex. From now on I will wait until she approaches me and shows me she wants to have sex. It's kinda hard, but it is a good thing to learn myself.
Yesterday, only two days later, she started touching me. I immediately got hard. I realised how the sensitisation is doing it's job. We had sex and for the first time in my life, it was so sensitive, that it couldn't go on for hours. Actually, after a few minutes I made her come and could not hold myself back anymore. I guess this is premature ejaculation, right?
I don't want to experience that anymore, but in a way, I felt good about it. It was so sensitive that it made me feel like being back again. Now I have to deal with the PE, I guess.
I am doing kegel excersises every day for about 2,5 weeks now. I am not sure, but I am getting hard as a rock, so I guess it is helping me. On the other hand, I've also heard that doing kegels might cause PE. Do make sure this doesn't happen you need to do reverse kegel excersises too. I tried to read about it but it doesn't really make sense to me. Anyone who has experience with reverse kegels?
Thanks!
The last couple of days I found myself being restless, eager for having sex. I did not sleep well and noticed a few urges, but these are now easy to get rid of. My cuddle buddy stayed over this week. We went to bed together. She wanted to sleep and I had a really hard time to accept that. When I want sex, I want it now. But of course I know this is not the way things work, only with porn. So I made a new deal with myself and with her, since she didn't like my reaction when she told me she didn't want to have sex. From now on I will wait until she approaches me and shows me she wants to have sex. It's kinda hard, but it is a good thing to learn myself.
Yesterday, only two days later, she started touching me. I immediately got hard. I realised how the sensitisation is doing it's job. We had sex and for the first time in my life, it was so sensitive, that it couldn't go on for hours. Actually, after a few minutes I made her come and could not hold myself back anymore. I guess this is premature ejaculation, right?
I don't want to experience that anymore, but in a way, I felt good about it. It was so sensitive that it made me feel like being back again. Now I have to deal with the PE, I guess.
I am doing kegel excersises every day for about 2,5 weeks now. I am not sure, but I am getting hard as a rock, so I guess it is helping me. On the other hand, I've also heard that doing kegels might cause PE. Do make sure this doesn't happen you need to do reverse kegel excersises too. I tried to read about it but it doesn't really make sense to me. Anyone who has experience with reverse kegels?
Thanks!