Jimbo
Active Member
The day after my ex girlfriend dumped me I figured out my problem. I had absolutely no idea that PMO could cause these issues. Was dealing with PIED for 6-7 years. It even cost me my marriage (the ex wife was convinced I was having an affair). The ex girlfriend called me later that same day. I didn't tell her specifically what the issues was. Just that I know what it is, that its repairable, and I'm committed to fixing it. I remember that conversation vividly. Thinking about it now I probably came across as a little too excited. Well I was excited. I just learned that I was gonna be able to have sex again! Anyway, about 5 days after that I was having a good crying session (depressed and angry at myself for causing all this hurt) and she called again. That's when I told her everything. It was such a relief to actually talk to someone, especially someone directly affected by my behavior, about it. About 4-5 days later we were back together. You'll know when the time is right but just remember you guys are a team. Keeping secrets is not healthy for any relationship. Honesty is the best policy.