iwanttofeelagain
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Hello out there,
(and sorry for my english...)
today I watched some videos from your brain on porn and this cool piano playing guy from this website (i love you, man! it's so good to know that you're not alone) and since i have actually had neuroscience as a major in my biology studies, i had some HEUREKA moments while watching this. Finally, I know whats going on with me.
Wow!
So I'm gonna start to reboot TODAY. I have fapped to some stupid "teen" porn for the LAST TIME two hours ago :'( Sad? NO! I hate porn, I hate, how it has actually turned me into a completely asexual person. Not able to have sex with real women anymore. Perceiving them as objects. Shit, that's not me!
When did this happen?
After 8 years of a relationship with ups and downs (but I'll tell you that: we fucked every time we saw each other until the end, plus we were the best buddys, discussion partners, travel mates etc) she quit me, and I was destroyed for quite some time (years!). I couldn't fall in love, didn't feel aroused by women, my whole fucking life was in question. So when she quit, my porn use got more and whats more important, it became the only way I was living my sexuality. Of course I had used porn already during our relationship, but I also had just genuine, beautiful sex with a woman I loved. Not anymore. When I first started having one night stands again, and then longer lasting affairs, I noticed that my erection was weaker than before, I couldn't reach orgasms, sometimes mr. i'm-not-to-blame wouldn't respond at all. So I blamed him! Actually no, I put the blame on alcohol first. I thought: I get desensitized by alcohol easily, so I can't fuck when I'm drunk. I told that to the girls and I believed it myself. It got worse, so I actually went to a doctor after having consistently failed in an affair with an ultra-hot, sweet blonde. I told him that I have obviously got anxiety problems since I can jack it easily, but when it comes to real women, I can't get the guy up. So he said, no prob, mate, here you go and I got the drugs. But after some successful tryouts, I even had instances, where nothing happened EVEN WITH THE STUFF. I didn't have morning wood for quite some time. I can't fap without porn, I can't fuck. Again: I CAN'T FUCK. Unbelievable.
Things have changed a bit lately, because I do have rock-hard morning wood at the moment. Lots of dopamine - I fell in love (unfortunately with a good friend, so I'm deeeeeep in the friendzone but that's not the topic here). She's the most lovable woman I've met in a long time, but I'm actually afraid to start anything sexual with her because I'm a sick freak, who has no idea what sex is actually about. Crazy stuff. But I started to notice some things about what's important in women: her smile, her lovely, warm attitude, her intelligence, her interest in me. Yes she's cute, too. But that's really not the point. There's millions of cute girls but they don't inspire me. They only inspire my porn-brain - it has to stop.
Love to you all, guys, I hope it won't be too difficult.
(and sorry for my english...)
today I watched some videos from your brain on porn and this cool piano playing guy from this website (i love you, man! it's so good to know that you're not alone) and since i have actually had neuroscience as a major in my biology studies, i had some HEUREKA moments while watching this. Finally, I know whats going on with me.
Wow!
So I'm gonna start to reboot TODAY. I have fapped to some stupid "teen" porn for the LAST TIME two hours ago :'( Sad? NO! I hate porn, I hate, how it has actually turned me into a completely asexual person. Not able to have sex with real women anymore. Perceiving them as objects. Shit, that's not me!
When did this happen?
After 8 years of a relationship with ups and downs (but I'll tell you that: we fucked every time we saw each other until the end, plus we were the best buddys, discussion partners, travel mates etc) she quit me, and I was destroyed for quite some time (years!). I couldn't fall in love, didn't feel aroused by women, my whole fucking life was in question. So when she quit, my porn use got more and whats more important, it became the only way I was living my sexuality. Of course I had used porn already during our relationship, but I also had just genuine, beautiful sex with a woman I loved. Not anymore. When I first started having one night stands again, and then longer lasting affairs, I noticed that my erection was weaker than before, I couldn't reach orgasms, sometimes mr. i'm-not-to-blame wouldn't respond at all. So I blamed him! Actually no, I put the blame on alcohol first. I thought: I get desensitized by alcohol easily, so I can't fuck when I'm drunk. I told that to the girls and I believed it myself. It got worse, so I actually went to a doctor after having consistently failed in an affair with an ultra-hot, sweet blonde. I told him that I have obviously got anxiety problems since I can jack it easily, but when it comes to real women, I can't get the guy up. So he said, no prob, mate, here you go and I got the drugs. But after some successful tryouts, I even had instances, where nothing happened EVEN WITH THE STUFF. I didn't have morning wood for quite some time. I can't fap without porn, I can't fuck. Again: I CAN'T FUCK. Unbelievable.
Things have changed a bit lately, because I do have rock-hard morning wood at the moment. Lots of dopamine - I fell in love (unfortunately with a good friend, so I'm deeeeeep in the friendzone but that's not the topic here). She's the most lovable woman I've met in a long time, but I'm actually afraid to start anything sexual with her because I'm a sick freak, who has no idea what sex is actually about. Crazy stuff. But I started to notice some things about what's important in women: her smile, her lovely, warm attitude, her intelligence, her interest in me. Yes she's cute, too. But that's really not the point. There's millions of cute girls but they don't inspire me. They only inspire my porn-brain - it has to stop.
Love to you all, guys, I hope it won't be too difficult.