rogerfaperer
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I'm just over a month into my latest PMO reboot. I can definately sense my "radar" super tuned to spotting good lookin girls --- like at the gym or in a club for example. But still the conception of girls in my mind feels sort of foreign. Its like i feel normal to look at a cute face or body or whatever, but underlying have a feeling of unfamiliarity/strangeness when it comes to naturally approach-interact-touch-kiss another person---then actually have sex.
Should I be feeling an overwhelming desire to kiss/feel them up, or be fantasizing about doing that? Is that what libido is???
It's like if I see a hot girl in the gym, I'll stare (who doesn't ) and the thought in my mind will be like 'wow that's hot; look at those legs'. But not like 'wow I'm so horny to caress that body/have sex'. Should it be the latter of these?
Right now it?s like yeah fit girls are a visual feast for my eyes but nothing more. I feel a bit detached, if that makes sense. Is that just that I?ve wired for so long not interacting with them and instead with my computer,pixels,porn that my brain wiring for arousal and response is screwed up? Or do we always feel a bit awkward around a hot girl - it is another person after all!
Confused what a normal libido is? Thanks guys!
Should I be feeling an overwhelming desire to kiss/feel them up, or be fantasizing about doing that? Is that what libido is???
It's like if I see a hot girl in the gym, I'll stare (who doesn't ) and the thought in my mind will be like 'wow that's hot; look at those legs'. But not like 'wow I'm so horny to caress that body/have sex'. Should it be the latter of these?
Right now it?s like yeah fit girls are a visual feast for my eyes but nothing more. I feel a bit detached, if that makes sense. Is that just that I?ve wired for so long not interacting with them and instead with my computer,pixels,porn that my brain wiring for arousal and response is screwed up? Or do we always feel a bit awkward around a hot girl - it is another person after all!
Confused what a normal libido is? Thanks guys!