Hi gents, checking in. Today is 59 days PMO-free. It's hasn't been that bad compared to other times (this is not my first go-round with this), although I had a real trial last night. As I've mentioned, my job requires me to be online a lot. Without even looking for it, I saw a video clip that was highly triggering to say the least. I could almost feel an instant chemical reaction taking place in my brain. I closed it and walked away. Later that night, we had a very stressful situation with one of our children who has anxiety disorders, and we had to call the police to calm her down. Long story short, my wife and I ended up in a dispute over how to handle it. This is EXACTLY the kind of situation in the past where I would go off and PMO as a relief valve. And I freely admit it, I was thinking about that clip I saw and how good it would be to use it and escape for a while.
I then thought of the Dr. Trish Leigh videos I watch on YouTube on P addiction. She says that urge in your head is like a hijacker trying to take control and make you do self-destructive things. I kept thinking of that and said out loud to myself, "It's the hijacker" several times. That, combined with the fact that I am now deep in flatline, prevented any PMO from taking place.
Don't know how much I may have set back my progress by seeing that clip and feeling the chemical reaction, but am trying to see the good side in that I did not go into the PMO ritual as a result. I know that controlling exposure to triggering material is a huge factor in avoiding these situations, so I am taking further steps to avoid them. I have no idea how long it will take until the PIED improves, but it feels like I'm still early in a long, tough process.