This is what my new life will be:
1) I will find a loving woman to spent my life with. A woman who understands me and cares for me because i am me. I am so longing for someone who puts her head on my shoulder again and gently touches my leg. My confidence is growing and I know this woman is out there in the not so distant future.
2) Work out. I will do regular workouts to keep myself healthy and more fit. Just also bought a bike so I can do some biking. The environment where I live is perfect for that.
3) Meet new people. I have lot's of friends but I still get energy from meeting interesting new people. Just found out about http://www.meetup.com/
Give it a try guys, I think this site can be helpful, especially if being alone is a trigger for you.
4) finally do all the f*king chores that i have been putting off for way to long!
You're talking to the king of procrastinators here...
Question: How will you give your life a new direction?
Thanks to everyone here on the forum. Just being here for each other is really a big key to success guys!