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Wohoo! In my experience the social anxiety gets better with time. Not that you shouldn't seek help if you need it, of course. At some point one just gets tired of beeing anxious about how people perceive them and then you stop caring. Best wishes

That sounds great! Congratulations on reaching so far. Great that you are making changes in your life. Rejections are part of a normal love life! I myself got rejected last week :v It sucks, but it's okay. Best wishes

Thank you! So far, Only notice that I don't want to look at P. My desire for it has stopped, and now I feel more conscious about why I'm abstaining from it, and why it is harmful to me. I don't have so many cravings, although from time to time some part of my body still wants to consume. I...

Thank you, @the_mountain_goat !

101 days P free! I can feel how I crave P less and less. I'm starting to crave less other subtitues, such as food or social media. I'm still slowly working my way out of social media. Great to see all the progress, although I'm not healed and still recovering. I could relapse at any minute...

Thank you! It's been a journey getting here! And you are right, these difficulties too shall pass, the healing process continues:))) Cheers

Hi guys. Today it's 92 days I haven't used P. It's the longest streak I've had since I was a little kid, and I'm grateful for it. I'm definitely not cured. I'm still struggling with urges and fetishes, but I hope that this long streak will help and the trend will continue. Also, I'm...

Thanks for checking out @the_mountain_goat ! I've been okay. I still feel very weak, I'm realizing I'm really not okay, and I need some serious help. Today I spoke with my psychiatrist, and I'm on a waiting list for specialized mental care. I still go to university and to work, but I'm trying...

It seems like you need to find a way of relieving tension and stress! Good luck man, and congrats on almost 90 days.

Hopefully yes! Let's see

Oh, btw, I have another job and I start next week! Seems an alright job!

Hi guys! I'm doing a bit better. I'm talking with my family and friends, and looking for professional help, I've realised that I cannot continue going like I've been going for the past years. I'm very depressed and that needs to take care of, because it's slowly killing me. Quite literally. I...

It's great to hear a 12 step program is working for you! Good luck

Thanks!

Yes, unfortunately yes :(1

Hi guys. Yesterday I got fired at my work, so I'm going under a lot of stress at the moment. I'm trying to cope with it and to be more self compassionate about it. I don't have an easy sittuation, I have mental health problems, I'm alone in a strange country and I'm trying my best. Today I...

Hey man, sorry to hear you relapsed, but good to see you here. Maybe try to keep it simple, Build up a weekly routine and stick to it, no too busy, not too ambitious, simple things, simple activities that make you good and you can do with other people, while at the same time gives you space...

Hello guys. In ten days I will be two months without P! I'm not counting some minor relapses, but still. I feel I'm breaking free from it. I still have anxiety problem and exhautasion, but I'm taking care of it and asking gor help. I have a meeting programed with my student counselor to re...

Hey man, how are you doing? Good luck with everything! I know it's very hard to redirect all that energy, I have the same problem. Some days I cannot even stand still, I feel all this energy in my guts, which kinda freaks me out. Maybe, we should learn to redirect it to something else. But I...

Breaking habits is difficult! Maybe try to take the urges as a signal to do something completely different? Yoga, for example, or calling a friend/relative. There is a book I want to read: atomic habits, it talks about building habits. Good luck!