Hablablos
Active Member
Hi Theself,
I know you have already seen my 3 question, but it's how I start most conversations:
Why do want to recover from addiction? I know it sounds a silly question, but reason for that is simple. Because your mind will play many tricks on you, you need to know exactly why are you doing this. And the best thing you can do is to write these reasons somewhere to have them as a reminder.
Who do you want to become as a person? If is too general for you, then who you don't want to become?
What hobbies or activities do you or need to do in order to become that person?
On the topic of finding purpose you can look at my post http://legacy.rebootnation.org/index.php?topic=9675.0 . In chapter 6 you'll find questions which could help you find a reason. For that you can also look at www.markmanson.net . There are many great articles as well, which I found really helpful and I believe they will help you as well.
Another thing is that you might be going through one of many withdrawal symptoms. I know from experience, that mine caused me extreme feelings of loneliness and emptiness.
I know you have already seen my 3 question, but it's how I start most conversations:
Why do want to recover from addiction? I know it sounds a silly question, but reason for that is simple. Because your mind will play many tricks on you, you need to know exactly why are you doing this. And the best thing you can do is to write these reasons somewhere to have them as a reminder.
Who do you want to become as a person? If is too general for you, then who you don't want to become?
What hobbies or activities do you or need to do in order to become that person?
On the topic of finding purpose you can look at my post http://legacy.rebootnation.org/index.php?topic=9675.0 . In chapter 6 you'll find questions which could help you find a reason. For that you can also look at www.markmanson.net . There are many great articles as well, which I found really helpful and I believe they will help you as well.
Another thing is that you might be going through one of many withdrawal symptoms. I know from experience, that mine caused me extreme feelings of loneliness and emptiness.