35y male, getting confidence and keep going

[Vincent]

hey man,

I am glad to see your progress. 7 days are a start and you seem to be doing well.

Please be on alert with porn Substitutes.....I so often make the mistake of using them to get a sniff of the old atmosphere only to then realise that I cannot withstand the attraction of them any more and eventually go back to porn. It is pretty difficult, as you say it, to see the blurred line here. What you should do is to focus not on what is porn or not, but to be very truthful to yourself in that regard. I my experience it is better not to classify porn but to classify everything as porn (for the time of your reboot) that you deliberately search for INSTEAD of porn . This can bee sexy pictures, underwear models etc. Of course they are not graphic porn. But they can trigger you to wanting to watch it. If the trigger is started once it might be very difficult to withdraw from that....

I wish you all the very best!

 

[kobe]

Thanks for your reply.

Your care is truly the best support for me.

thanks.

 

[kobe]

Dear all,

I have already turned to my 35.
Thing is still going well, and I will keep working on it.

thanks guys for your support and help.

 

[kobe]

Dear friends,

I kind of losing my control lately.
Once I get up, I can not leave my bed immediately.
Tend to looking for sexy picture or article to watch.

NO PMO yet, but looks like I am lossing my control of it.

thanks

 

[kobe]

Hi,

How are you guys?
I am still survived.

Keep working on extending the millage.

Go.

 

[kobe]

Dear friends,

I am still survive, but lately I am lacking of the work production.
Tend to watch porn again.

Probably I am too tired, and I don't have enough sleep.

It is hard for me to get up and leave bed immediately, and I tend to use smart phone in bed.

I think I should quit this part, too.

 

[kobe]

This time is 3 months, but I need to reset again.
Fail today, after 30 days of no flap.

However, I still can not stop it, feel terrible to myself.