I sometimes use this as a place to vent which often leads me into a thought about the reboot. So I apologize upfront if I ramble on. HAHA.
So, I went on what I can consider a date with my friend yesterday. I picked her up and went for dinner (She paid!! ) then to a hockey game and had a pretty awesome time. We joked around and laughed and there was a little flirtatiousness going on. She even had makeup on which was the first I've seen since knowing her!!!
Then we found out an ex of hers was at the game...... talk about awkward for me...... So she mentioned what happened and how he was such an asshole and made no connection with her for her to feel closure after dating and asked my opinion..... Now here I am feeling a bit down, but I came out and just said; "Listen, I'm a bit bias in this situation because I really care about you. You have a guy sitting next to you that understands you, that appreciates you, that listens to you and really likes being around you. You have a huge heart and I see that in you by the way you interact with your best friends, kids and the pups. My opinion...by the sounds of this other guy, hes worthless and wanted nothing more from you than a summer of fun. The fact he never spoke to you again in the last 6 months tells you something!" I also told her that I found it funny that here we are a year later reconnecting and we are closer now than we were then. Does that not tell you something. She said she really cares about me too, but she thought it was just too soon or isn't ready to date yet. I respect that. I went home a bit bummed I will say. This morning I shrugged it off and at 7AM got a text from her.... So I think what I said rang in her ear a bit. She did say this AM we have a lot of summer adventures to go on so I'll take it.
Now I'll relate this to the reboot. If I didn't work as hard as I have this past year to be more confident in myself, I never would have spoken up and told her how I felt. I would have cowered down and left the conversation as it was. I took the bull by the horns and was a man about it. Now lets see what the months ahead bring.
Here's to being more confident!!!
ImOnMyWay
So, I went on what I can consider a date with my friend yesterday. I picked her up and went for dinner (She paid!! ) then to a hockey game and had a pretty awesome time. We joked around and laughed and there was a little flirtatiousness going on. She even had makeup on which was the first I've seen since knowing her!!!
Then we found out an ex of hers was at the game...... talk about awkward for me...... So she mentioned what happened and how he was such an asshole and made no connection with her for her to feel closure after dating and asked my opinion..... Now here I am feeling a bit down, but I came out and just said; "Listen, I'm a bit bias in this situation because I really care about you. You have a guy sitting next to you that understands you, that appreciates you, that listens to you and really likes being around you. You have a huge heart and I see that in you by the way you interact with your best friends, kids and the pups. My opinion...by the sounds of this other guy, hes worthless and wanted nothing more from you than a summer of fun. The fact he never spoke to you again in the last 6 months tells you something!" I also told her that I found it funny that here we are a year later reconnecting and we are closer now than we were then. Does that not tell you something. She said she really cares about me too, but she thought it was just too soon or isn't ready to date yet. I respect that. I went home a bit bummed I will say. This morning I shrugged it off and at 7AM got a text from her.... So I think what I said rang in her ear a bit. She did say this AM we have a lot of summer adventures to go on so I'll take it.
Now I'll relate this to the reboot. If I didn't work as hard as I have this past year to be more confident in myself, I never would have spoken up and told her how I felt. I would have cowered down and left the conversation as it was. I took the bull by the horns and was a man about it. Now lets see what the months ahead bring.
Here's to being more confident!!!
ImOnMyWay