is this possible that after a reboot I will be bored with one girl? I'm a bit afraid about this idea. I hope that reboot will give me an opposite effect.
with or without porn, humans are wired to reproduce and survive. survival really dont matter if you dont reproduce, reproduction is more important. i think that is why orgasm feels better than food.
im sure you remember the first time you fell in love with your gf, im sure it was feeling just a little bit better than now? maybe it was a lot better. the more often you O with someone, the more brain turns off attractiveness for that person and increases attractiveness for others because we are wired to spread our genes as much as possible before we die (we used to die before 30). in other words your secretary or random girl on the street can become more attractive than your current gf over time. this happens all the time. that is why gary wilson practices karezza. karezza is bonding behavior that includes sex but its not goal oriented. if you want to stay in deeper love with your gf, you need to practice more bonding behavior and less mating (edging and Oing) behavior.
this all makes sense and since gary wilson practices this, i would say its legit. i never practiced karezza though but i did noticed that my, now ex, gf became less attractive even after just 2 years of relationship. i mean, i started thinking about cheating, there were more arguments, less harmony etc. it happens to a lot of relationships if you ask me, really a lot.
we advanced so much from our beginning days, its not necessary to O all the time like before. its not necessary to spread our genes as quickly and as much as possible before we get eaten by the tiger. today is more bonding and less mating era. brain does not know the difference between porn and real girl, when you watch porn your brain thinking you are reproducing with all those beautiful babes. brain also dont know when you O with your gf that you are not Oing inside or making babies with her, brain thinks you are reproducing and why would you keep reproducing, keep watching same video or keep fucking same girl forever? it does not make sense from biological stand point if your main goal is to spread your genes as much as possible. to fight this, brain simply makes your current partner less and others more attractive. easy work.
nothing wrong with changing relationships though, but if you really want to stay in harmony and love you should practice more bonding behavior (karezza). it makes sense. if you dont O as often, your brain will keep thinking highly of your partner just like the first time you were together. it also happens that when some people get back together its good for some time but it goes south later again. this is all very common and i thought about it all and it makes sense to me. it makes sense why it goes south and it makes sense why all the karezza practitioners experience harmony and love more constantly.
gary wilson's wife is writting about karezza. i think reuniting is the name of the site and her name is marnia robinson.