Day 11
I'm starting today as I started my last day working from home: youtube on, listening to worship music and praying. I've decided that it's right for me to give up all social media for Lent - I've never done this before but I feel led to strip away every crutch that might lead me away from pursuing my faith and battling this addiction.
I don't want to bore people who are reading this who don't have faith, but honestly, I've been so convinced of the realness of God during this past week. I feel able to surrender all my fears and doubts to Him, and it's feeling like it's working. Church was great yesterday - I could really sense the Holy Spirit's presence with us as we sang. I feel like God is doing a healing work in me that's going deeper than before.
Aquarius - thanks for the message. You're totally right: there's no room for porn in my life, as a reward or otherwise. I think I just used that as an illustration of the kind of wrong-thinking I've slipped into in the past. And yes, there are a handful of people who know everything. My pastor has been especially good to me: we've known each other for about 15 years now and he's seen my ups and downs. The thing that's the trickiest is the temptation to misrepresent my life on Facebook. I guess it's inevitable in a way - it's nice to tell people the good news, the holidays, the breakthroughs at school etc - but it's easy to end up craving validation through the approval of others.
Anyway, things have been good over the weekend. We went for a couple of walks with the girls, had some time chilling out at home, ate pizza, ate cake, enjoyed family life. Any ED problems are long gone, my sex drive is normal again and our sex life has been good.
I need to guard against unexpected temptation, not get complacent and fight a daily battle. Thanks for all your support.