Well, first of all, I was not and am not bragging. There is literally nothing to brag about, only to be embarrassed about, in my post. It was simply giving context to explain the depth of my problem.
Secondly, I do understand the suggestions and I'd probably suggest the same if I were you - but due to personal problems (not related to me or our relationship), she has been in depression and had ill-thoughts about her life. So while it may sound like an excuse for me (and maybe it is), I do truly think it would not do any favors to her if I went and told her everything. I do not believe there is anything you guys or anyone can tell me to convince me to go tell her what I have done.
And lastly, I do those things only when I travel for business and away from home, and luckily, I do not have any planned travel for the next 2 months, which means I am not going to meet anyone (I never ever met anyone in my city). And I am now at day 43 of no PMO. My hope is that, in two months, when the count shows me 103 days, I will have a much cleaner brain which will not drag me to do those things again. So for the next two months, all I have to do is make sure I do not PMO and I continue to rewire my brain with my wife.