Jasonsjunk1975,
Keep fighting the good fight, you can beat it! One of the things that I find works really well when you have really bad temptations is to pray, really talk to Jesus or God. Talk as if you are talking to your friend or family member, express how you really want to stay away from porn but can't do it on your own and that you really need help. It's in these times when I notice I receive those extra graces and suddenly I am able to beat the temptations and urges. Also during really bad urges and temptations I listen to youtube video talks by Bishop Sheen, Joel Osteen, etc. I find when I start to focus on God and Jesus, instead of my own urges that the addiction begins to lose its grip on me. Last week I woke up to terrible anxiety and had really bad temptations, I listened to a 27 minute Joel Osteen talk on youtube and the temptation left me and I felt uplifted after the video was over.
Also it's important to realize the following:
1) One fall to PMO is not one fall but a PMO marathon that makes it hard to get back on the wagon again.
2) Stay away from dirty R-rated movies, TV programs, and anything else that gets you sexually excited. I found watching documentaries or other educational programs or other clean TV shows keeps away the urges while in recovery.
3) Know what your triggers are and stay away from them. PMO addiction is like falling off the cliff, you want to stay as far away from the edge of the cliff as you can because if you linger around the edge of the cliff you will fall.
4) Realize no matter how bad the urges and temptations are, they will eventually pass. Every time they pass and you beat them, it gets easier to beat them the next time.
5) Keep yourself busy with activities, sitting around with lots of idle free time is not good when in recovery.
6) Pray, pray, and pray - I found praying the Rosary to be a very effective in beating the addiction.
No matter what don't give up, keep trying you will eventually be victorious in your battle. Keep thinking about how bright your future will be without PMO.
Rex