Just be patient with her. My wife didn?t speak to me for 6 months once. Only when she absolutely had too. It was awful. I just gave her space and stayed completely sincere in every respect and eventually one day we had it out in a verbal discussion, when she was ready and I couldn?t take it anymore. We came to terms and she began to respect me again, because I?m a decent man, otherwise not perfect.
The line that turned the tide for me was when she said that I am an idiot. ?Well, if I am such an awful man, why did you marry me then? What does that say about you that you chose to marry such an idiot? What does that make you??
She thought about and started to view me with more respect after that, and treat me more humanely. Our marriage has never been perfect but we make good life-partners.
I feel your pain. Just sharing my story in hopes it might help. Women think they own a man?s every thought and microscopic sperm but that?s just their craziness and possessive jealously and insecurity. We have man-craziness too. Eventually, if she really loves you and understands that you genuinely love her, and if marriage vows are sacred, she?ll come around.
best of luck to you,
keep those clean days adding up!
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