Ok, so my first week is complete with the new reboot. My counter reflects my new goals: no watching porn for 365 days (forever really, but that seems like a good goal) and no MO for 90 days.
So far, getting rid of porn again was no big deal. I do not crave it. It goes to show that the work I did for almost a year to rid my life of it is still paying dividends. I am not withdrawing, just adjusting. The no MO is more difficult. The fact is, I want sex. But I am able to put the thoughts out of my mind fairly easily. I am on the right track.
My relapse was a few days of letting that stuff back into my life. I was going through a pretty rough time. The fact is, I am an addict with many addictive behaviors. I was going through an adjustment as I was getting rid of alcohol completely from my life (95 days sober now). That put a lot of pressure on me and I used porn as an outlet. Now I feel I like have two of my addictions under control. My third: overeating and using sugar, is an outlet for me now. It is my last addiction to quit. This has caused me to seek out the sources of my addiction and deal with them. But it does not always go to plan.
One thing I noticed as I let porn back into my life: It immediately brought back porn brain - the foggy hypersexualized way of thinking and objectifying women. I did not like it and am very happy that I am feeling back to normal after a week (only took maybe 48 hours for me to return to normal). I can attest that that is no way to go through life.
Any way, things are good, one week down. Getting my life back on track.
-P