Hey man,
I see it's tough for you, sorry to read about that. You're drive and motivation is good though, I hope you can maintain the next streak. Anyways, wanted to ask whether you have a plan or a bit of structure to go forward with this? I understand willpower is a very important part, but that can't be everything.
What will replace the 'hole' that the absence of porn leaves in your life? You'll have time and energy left in which your body and brain will automatically search for something to satisfy itself. It used to be porn, what can it be now?
What will you do during the day to avoid slipping into urges? For me it helped to structure my days more. Have some standard things I do at times every day to fall back on. I read a lot of things nowadays and I'm trying to build a daily meditation habit. I know it's embarrasing, but have you told anyone close to you? Telling my family was shit, but worth it. They support and want to help.
Just some small things that might help I wish you all the best, you can get over this addiction!
I see it's tough for you, sorry to read about that. You're drive and motivation is good though, I hope you can maintain the next streak. Anyways, wanted to ask whether you have a plan or a bit of structure to go forward with this? I understand willpower is a very important part, but that can't be everything.
What will replace the 'hole' that the absence of porn leaves in your life? You'll have time and energy left in which your body and brain will automatically search for something to satisfy itself. It used to be porn, what can it be now?
What will you do during the day to avoid slipping into urges? For me it helped to structure my days more. Have some standard things I do at times every day to fall back on. I read a lot of things nowadays and I'm trying to build a daily meditation habit. I know it's embarrasing, but have you told anyone close to you? Telling my family was shit, but worth it. They support and want to help.
Just some small things that might help I wish you all the best, you can get over this addiction!