GBS
Respected Member
579 days sober
3 days no MO
Well, inexplicably things appear to be back on an even keel. I had a therapy session yesterday and got some of my frustration out. There is no obvious answer to the impasse other than the plain (and understandable) one that betrayal trauma can last for years. It doesn’t necessarily depend on the gravity of the betrayal. But me sulking or just filling myself with self pity is not going to make things better.
The even keel I referenced above is just that we’re sort of close again. As if the outbursts were just angry venting and we can move onwards. But no mention of whether we’re doing couples therapy. I said after my therapy that we should at least get back to the guy, and wife nodded in agreement. Silence thereafter. And so we persevere.
3 days no MO
Well, inexplicably things appear to be back on an even keel. I had a therapy session yesterday and got some of my frustration out. There is no obvious answer to the impasse other than the plain (and understandable) one that betrayal trauma can last for years. It doesn’t necessarily depend on the gravity of the betrayal. But me sulking or just filling myself with self pity is not going to make things better.
The even keel I referenced above is just that we’re sort of close again. As if the outbursts were just angry venting and we can move onwards. But no mention of whether we’re doing couples therapy. I said after my therapy that we should at least get back to the guy, and wife nodded in agreement. Silence thereafter. And so we persevere.