The problem here is the way you think and define yourself. You define yourself in a very negative way, as a 25 yo virgin. You define yourself by the problems you have.
Guess what? With this mentality, you could lose your virginity today and still feel like your life is horrible, because you would simply define yourself by another problem. Im 25 years old and I don't have muscles. Im 25 years old and I'm poor. I'm 25 years old and I dress like a 14yo fluokid. etc.
Being virgin at 25 is not a problem, but being a 25 yo virgin is. I don't know if I'm clear : In the first case, being virgin is just a fact, and you can be happy with this fact and have a life that rocks anyway. In the second case, your whole life turns around this fact, and a 25 years old virgin is the only thing you are.
You could be the best singer in the world and virgin, and top athlete and virgin... but you decided that a virgin is the only thing you are and that you can't be anything cool before you lose your virginity. That's not true.
Don't wait to lose your virginity to be happy, because when you'll have lost it then you'll have another problem to fix before being happy, and another, and another...
Be happy and you'll see that a happy man makes girls happy, and happy girls like to have sex with happy men.
Before being loved, you have to love yourself. You can't love yourself if you see yourself as 25yo virgin.
It is hard to approach women
How much times have you ever tried?
Did you approach 100 women before statuing that it was difficult?
If no, how can you say that it is?
You wouldnt buy a videogame, play it once, die and say "this game is horribly difficult". You would play again and again, until you get what you have to do and continue, level to level. It works the same with women.
All the guys that have a girlfriend or sex buddy or whatever, all of them in the world, started by fearing to approach them. All of them experienced rejection.
Do you wanna experience rejection or do you wanna stay alone for your whole life?
You have no right to say "it is hard to approach women", the only thing you can say is "it is hard to approach women
FOR ME". Because it is easy for some people. And it is hard for you because you never really tried, that's all. The real deal here is in fact "
I THINK, BUT IM NOT SURE BECAUSE I DIDNT REALLY TRY, THAT it is hard to approach women
FOR ME"
You could start approaching girls today and have a girlfriend (or multiples sexfriends!) in 6 months from now, trust me that's really possible. Or you can continue to be a virgin, 26yo virgin, 27 yo virgin, 28 yo virgin........ 80 yo virgin...
Decide today to be a winner. That's as simple as that and that's the only solution.