olafthewise
Active Member
I have no intentions of EVER telling my wife of my online porn problems. I hear others doing so and I cannot understand this. Do what you will, but... Women already do not understand the male sexual needs, how often they need sex, what turns us on and why. There is no "cookie cutter" sexual needs thing that fits all guys! My wife knows I need her sexual attention, then says she is tired and rolls over.
I think by now, most people in America, know that the best way to keep a husbands interest is to be sexually interesting in the bedroom. right? The fact that we are visual and women are not should be analyzed by both husband and wife.
If a man was sex starved and had an affair to get sexual release, should he tell his wife? I say, generally, no. adultery confession does nothing to fix anything in the relationship. Garth Brooks (country singer) took years trying to beg forgiveness from his wife for his adultery, they ended in divorce.
In the past, I spent many nights until 2 AM doing PMO and she never suspected. (she misses a lot of clues in life for someone more intelligent than me). What do I tell her? that my grad school stuff I attempted 8 years ago was a failure because of PMO? Or that all the time I was doing school work instead of spending time with our kids I was viewing porn?? Not going to ever tell her. I am doing this "quitting porn" thing for me in order for a better view of life and to look out there and see where people may need me, starting right here at home.
So, all you guys who have erectile dysfunction from PMO and you go tell the wife who needs your tool to work and she gets angry at your PMO?? I dunno. I wouldn't tell her.
How about you quit PMO, exercise, read, watch documentaries and take her shopping while you play another game of angry birds on your phone as she tries on new clothes or shops for a new pizza pan. take her home get her clothes off and just lay there with her. If you get better as a man, OFF of Porn, what does she care? As long as you are doing what you need to as a man, no confession will be necessary.
Back me up guys??no? am I wrong?
Lets be truthful though. My wife may ask me one day, if I was ever addicted to porn and I may just say, "yes, but it's been awhile" She doesn't need to know much more.
I like the new me. I sit and watch kids movies with them.
I think by now, most people in America, know that the best way to keep a husbands interest is to be sexually interesting in the bedroom. right? The fact that we are visual and women are not should be analyzed by both husband and wife.
If a man was sex starved and had an affair to get sexual release, should he tell his wife? I say, generally, no. adultery confession does nothing to fix anything in the relationship. Garth Brooks (country singer) took years trying to beg forgiveness from his wife for his adultery, they ended in divorce.
In the past, I spent many nights until 2 AM doing PMO and she never suspected. (she misses a lot of clues in life for someone more intelligent than me). What do I tell her? that my grad school stuff I attempted 8 years ago was a failure because of PMO? Or that all the time I was doing school work instead of spending time with our kids I was viewing porn?? Not going to ever tell her. I am doing this "quitting porn" thing for me in order for a better view of life and to look out there and see where people may need me, starting right here at home.
So, all you guys who have erectile dysfunction from PMO and you go tell the wife who needs your tool to work and she gets angry at your PMO?? I dunno. I wouldn't tell her.
How about you quit PMO, exercise, read, watch documentaries and take her shopping while you play another game of angry birds on your phone as she tries on new clothes or shops for a new pizza pan. take her home get her clothes off and just lay there with her. If you get better as a man, OFF of Porn, what does she care? As long as you are doing what you need to as a man, no confession will be necessary.
Back me up guys??no? am I wrong?
Lets be truthful though. My wife may ask me one day, if I was ever addicted to porn and I may just say, "yes, but it's been awhile" She doesn't need to know much more.
I like the new me. I sit and watch kids movies with them.