olafthewise
Active Member
Update?
sexually we still only have sexual contact on Saturday mornings. As I mentioned before, when she sex-starves me for a week, I get really frustrated and tempted. recently it was 10 days!
Again, she is making some things up claiming I was verbally abusing some of the kids, and that I am always angry. I reminded her that 5 years of unemployment along with boring sex (did not say it like that) will make any guy angry. however, I have not been exhibiting anger and none of the kids are complaining...there are so many areas where she fabricates her experiences and then says my memory is bad. But most women claim their husbands have Attention deficit disorder anyway.
I did go off the other day and we discussed some things and I called her out on her lies. I presented logic to her and shot down every accusation she had. She is even angry that I don't come upstairs to our room to pray for our son who is on drugs. I told her that my faith is fine but that 5 years of unemployment has shaken me up on prayer and stuff.
anyway we had a good argument and as usual she gets all the benefits of emotional stability and I get nothing.
I live in temptation daily and yet stay from porn sites as I should.
On concluding here: I still stand by my original position that confessing my porn past to my wife would be unproductive if not damaging to what little I already have.
sexually we still only have sexual contact on Saturday mornings. As I mentioned before, when she sex-starves me for a week, I get really frustrated and tempted. recently it was 10 days!
Again, she is making some things up claiming I was verbally abusing some of the kids, and that I am always angry. I reminded her that 5 years of unemployment along with boring sex (did not say it like that) will make any guy angry. however, I have not been exhibiting anger and none of the kids are complaining...there are so many areas where she fabricates her experiences and then says my memory is bad. But most women claim their husbands have Attention deficit disorder anyway.
I did go off the other day and we discussed some things and I called her out on her lies. I presented logic to her and shot down every accusation she had. She is even angry that I don't come upstairs to our room to pray for our son who is on drugs. I told her that my faith is fine but that 5 years of unemployment has shaken me up on prayer and stuff.
anyway we had a good argument and as usual she gets all the benefits of emotional stability and I get nothing.
I live in temptation daily and yet stay from porn sites as I should.
On concluding here: I still stand by my original position that confessing my porn past to my wife would be unproductive if not damaging to what little I already have.