Perseverance
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Day 32 -
I?ve decided to not start my day count from scratch. This is because being overly hard on myself won?t get me anywhere. I started this current reboot attempt a month ago now and, sure, a few days ago I slipped up, but that doesn?t mean this reboot attempt is over and a failure.
The main thing for me is that I *did* break the relapse cycle that?s been dogging me for years. I may have PM, but I didn?t PMO and that?s the main thing. I stopped myself. Stood back from the brink. And road it out.
I feel shaken by my slip up, but no deterred. I?m getting back into my routine and I fined inner strength in that.
At the bottom of all this is a simple fact for me: I?m better than this!
I?m a good man who does good things in a world that desperately needs it. P is the last vestige of a miss spent youth. A final ghost haunting me.
But I am going to break free of its clutches. I?ve just got to stay focused. Calm. Collected. Compassionate.
I?m not perfect. And that?s ok. There are things in this life I can change, and there are things that I can?t.
Yesterday was a good day. I spent most of it at work so was distracted, but fended off cravings when I got home in the evening. I kept myself busy finish of a heap of jobs that needed doing. And then spent the rest of the evening speaking to my girl.
Hateporn21, you asked if I?d told her about my P addiction, and the answer is yes. Although I haven?t put a time frame on it yet, she just knows that I?m a recovering P addict. I?ll tell her about the reboot when the time is right. Half the problem is admitting I was still using when we started dating, I?m not sure how she?ll respond to that revelation ? hence why I need to time it right.
Today I?m getting back fully into my routine. I have a presentation to prepare, some graphic design to produce, plus there?s my book which is also coming along brilliantly.
So yeah, I pulled myself back from the brink and ? with hindsight ? it doesn?t look as bad as it felt at the time. What a difference a day makes, eh?
I?ve decided to not start my day count from scratch. This is because being overly hard on myself won?t get me anywhere. I started this current reboot attempt a month ago now and, sure, a few days ago I slipped up, but that doesn?t mean this reboot attempt is over and a failure.
The main thing for me is that I *did* break the relapse cycle that?s been dogging me for years. I may have PM, but I didn?t PMO and that?s the main thing. I stopped myself. Stood back from the brink. And road it out.
I feel shaken by my slip up, but no deterred. I?m getting back into my routine and I fined inner strength in that.
At the bottom of all this is a simple fact for me: I?m better than this!
I?m a good man who does good things in a world that desperately needs it. P is the last vestige of a miss spent youth. A final ghost haunting me.
But I am going to break free of its clutches. I?ve just got to stay focused. Calm. Collected. Compassionate.
I?m not perfect. And that?s ok. There are things in this life I can change, and there are things that I can?t.
Yesterday was a good day. I spent most of it at work so was distracted, but fended off cravings when I got home in the evening. I kept myself busy finish of a heap of jobs that needed doing. And then spent the rest of the evening speaking to my girl.
Hateporn21, you asked if I?d told her about my P addiction, and the answer is yes. Although I haven?t put a time frame on it yet, she just knows that I?m a recovering P addict. I?ll tell her about the reboot when the time is right. Half the problem is admitting I was still using when we started dating, I?m not sure how she?ll respond to that revelation ? hence why I need to time it right.
Today I?m getting back fully into my routine. I have a presentation to prepare, some graphic design to produce, plus there?s my book which is also coming along brilliantly.
So yeah, I pulled myself back from the brink and ? with hindsight ? it doesn?t look as bad as it felt at the time. What a difference a day makes, eh?