mtaha2015 said:
meditation is good, but again it is a far away from reality. you have to go in special kind of state to attain state of meditation. so I don't like meditation.
Hey taha, just to let you know: non-meditation is far away from reality, meditation is letting go of thoughts and desires (both of which create illusions) and seeing raw reality.
You might be talking about a mystical state, or altered states of perception, which some people induce themselves through visualisations and mantra or etc, but that is not medidation, that is visualisation or doing something to achieve something.
Meditation is not doing anything. Meditation is non-interference. Meditation is training your awareness in order to understand better the mind and it's tricks, and learning how to control it, rather than being controlled by it. The mind wants to interfere, because it wants more always, because it is never satisfied, since it is driven by pleasure, and it is not "evil", but only does that because we have unintentionally trained it to behave like that. So, think of it like a wild horse. It would be fine on its own, but if you'd want to ride it, you'd have to learn to tame it, first. Or else, it would just run amok, and impossible to be rode. It would control you, and lead you to where it wanted, instead of you being the leader.
In practical terms, a common meditation technique is to sit still for 5 minutes and watching your breath, while not interfering with it. Just observing it, completely focused on it, no other thoughts or judgements, but also not controlling it in any form. It is not a technique to achieve "mindfullness", "awareness of the moment", but it is just practicing this basic principle: learning to control your mind. That being said, there are countless, literaly infinite ways, in which you could "meditate", in which you could practice this principle, just watching the present reality, letting go of the judgements and thoughts, while also letting go of the idea of a "me" who is doing the letting go, and while not getting caught in trying to get too metaphysical or anything, JUST BEING THERE. Shut the fuck up, mind, let me live for a moment, will you? Thanks.
So, yeah. My opinion is, you should like meditation
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