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So as some may have read the topic Flattened that WAS a 2 page rant about how angry i was with my husbands PMO addiction and the betrayal & pain
he had caused in our relationship for 2 years!
We'll i deleted it because that day i gave up!!
though he had stopped and was over hurting himself i couldn't live with the fact i was so blind and stupid to it all!
including ED pills behind my back due to to much PMO he then developed PIED...SMH!
But he then convinced me he was sorry sorry sorry and read threw all the information provided by Gabe , Gary and here and the light came on reallll fast!
The problem was solved !!!!!!! DONE.
Soooooo anyways - 8 months later he is doing great and so are we, through all the typical shit that Porn does to a man we survived it and became even more in love and much stronger!
But here is where the thread title comes in " SUPERMAN- How can my ordinary guy who is surrounded by men all day with there stupid phones just DROP IT COLD TURKEY for 8 months and not look back?
How can my husband just drop drinking cold turkey just like that ??
How can my man not smoke ( pot) anymore just like that ?
How, how how ........................when he was told this is the LAST time i will NOT tolerate this in my life, and that I don't want that in my life if you want it in your life you will have to move on to someone else that will except the fact you would rather be alone with yourself and use them as left overs !!!
Left overs you may say its not like that ............O YES IT IS !!!!!!! Think about it and think hard !!!!
WE GET WHATS LEFT OVER !!!
Then He/we suffered threw the flat lines and giving into temptation wasn't a option for him, having his penis back in action with a actual human being who loves him was!!
If he wanted to live on pills to keep a erection due to porn use, well share that drug induced erection with someone else!!
But please make sure that person is aware of the pill use in case you drop dead from those pills at least everyone will know why.
So he realized immediately he would lose his BEST FRIEND this time over something that will NEVER satisfy him/you completely PORN!!
P- don't cook for you.
P- don't do your laundry.
P- is not there for you when you are sick.
P- doesn't hug & kiss you.
P- don't love you.
Hell you don't even know there real name.
They are in reality girls/guys you wouldn't give the time of day to in real life or wouldn't want to be the mother of your child!
So without hesitation superman appeared and took over HIS life, stopped letting pixels on a screen rule it !!!
I have spent 8 months doing everything i can to educate him and even others and i will NOT be taken advantage of again!
I stand by my man 100% but he is a addict and can not have that shit in his life or he wont have me, end of story!!
My goal now is to try and get my head on right ( as it still isn't ) and stay positive.
threw all this we have grown TOGETHER to love and experiment more with ourselves and feelings, we have grown closer!
And that DOES NOT HAPPEN ALONE !!!
As has been proven to be a fact !!!
ADVISE on how my husband got out of the trap HE JUST SAID NO MORE, DONE!!! and everything he was doing that contributed to it. Cold turkey!!!
He has also said loud and clear PORN IS WHAT F ED ME UP AND I HATE IT !!!!!
You to can be a SUPERMAN!! 8)
So i will continue trying to better myself & shield my man from pain and if anyone gets in my way i pity the fool !!
And he will continue to stand by me/ us and help repair the pain that has been caused, I with out a doubt believe him and just hope it continues forever!
Good luck
Ill be back
he had caused in our relationship for 2 years!
We'll i deleted it because that day i gave up!!
though he had stopped and was over hurting himself i couldn't live with the fact i was so blind and stupid to it all!
including ED pills behind my back due to to much PMO he then developed PIED...SMH!
But he then convinced me he was sorry sorry sorry and read threw all the information provided by Gabe , Gary and here and the light came on reallll fast!
The problem was solved !!!!!!! DONE.
Soooooo anyways - 8 months later he is doing great and so are we, through all the typical shit that Porn does to a man we survived it and became even more in love and much stronger!
But here is where the thread title comes in " SUPERMAN- How can my ordinary guy who is surrounded by men all day with there stupid phones just DROP IT COLD TURKEY for 8 months and not look back?
How can my husband just drop drinking cold turkey just like that ??
How can my man not smoke ( pot) anymore just like that ?
How, how how ........................when he was told this is the LAST time i will NOT tolerate this in my life, and that I don't want that in my life if you want it in your life you will have to move on to someone else that will except the fact you would rather be alone with yourself and use them as left overs !!!
Left overs you may say its not like that ............O YES IT IS !!!!!!! Think about it and think hard !!!!
WE GET WHATS LEFT OVER !!!
Then He/we suffered threw the flat lines and giving into temptation wasn't a option for him, having his penis back in action with a actual human being who loves him was!!
If he wanted to live on pills to keep a erection due to porn use, well share that drug induced erection with someone else!!
But please make sure that person is aware of the pill use in case you drop dead from those pills at least everyone will know why.
So he realized immediately he would lose his BEST FRIEND this time over something that will NEVER satisfy him/you completely PORN!!
P- don't cook for you.
P- don't do your laundry.
P- is not there for you when you are sick.
P- doesn't hug & kiss you.
P- don't love you.
Hell you don't even know there real name.
They are in reality girls/guys you wouldn't give the time of day to in real life or wouldn't want to be the mother of your child!
So without hesitation superman appeared and took over HIS life, stopped letting pixels on a screen rule it !!!
I have spent 8 months doing everything i can to educate him and even others and i will NOT be taken advantage of again!
I stand by my man 100% but he is a addict and can not have that shit in his life or he wont have me, end of story!!
My goal now is to try and get my head on right ( as it still isn't ) and stay positive.
threw all this we have grown TOGETHER to love and experiment more with ourselves and feelings, we have grown closer!
And that DOES NOT HAPPEN ALONE !!!
As has been proven to be a fact !!!
ADVISE on how my husband got out of the trap HE JUST SAID NO MORE, DONE!!! and everything he was doing that contributed to it. Cold turkey!!!
He has also said loud and clear PORN IS WHAT F ED ME UP AND I HATE IT !!!!!
You to can be a SUPERMAN!! 8)
So i will continue trying to better myself & shield my man from pain and if anyone gets in my way i pity the fool !!
And he will continue to stand by me/ us and help repair the pain that has been caused, I with out a doubt believe him and just hope it continues forever!
Good luck
Ill be back