Christ My Savior said:
This will be my 3rd reset in the last 2 weeks? today was a day off and once I had some time to myself I went online to view some P. Within minutes I was MOing? Not sure if I`m ready to do this even though I feel like I should. I reset my meter and my goal is to go just 7 days with PMO? that`ll be a record for me in some time. I don`t remember the last time that happened.
The first 2 days seem to be ok. By the 3rd time I`m feeling irritated. By Day 4, I usually PMO? that seems to be the routine?
As silly as it sounds I`m hoping that Friday I can stay out of the house and avoid being alone? that`ll be Day 3 of this reset. Day 4 which has proven to be the most difficult will be Saturday so I`ll be out and about with the family attending games and work. Same for Day 5. By next Monday, I`ll probably be really craving some PMO so I`m looking to plan the day so I`m out of the house and busy. That seems to be the key? stay busy.
A bit frustrated by this entire thing? also, just weighted myself. I`m up 10 lbs from originally losing 35 lbs. Its so easy to fall back into old habits?
Walking away from PMO while battling the constant weight issue wears you down. Have to stay strong. Been going to the gym but I`m constantly looking at ass. Temptation everywhere...
You are so ready to do this thing, because you want to reclaim your life, and you don't like how it feels after the deed is done, right?
All the reasons you stated in the beginning of your journal:
1. Innocence to be regained;
2. Your work;
3. Your relationships;
4. Your health;
5. Losing sexual excitement;
6. Wasting hours upon hours of your life;
7. Being able to prove to yourself that you can go without porn, not just for a day- but for a week, and for longer...
8. To be the better man that your wife so deserves;
9. You want to share your story with us, and learn our stories as well;
10. You want to find a way out of this darkness in your life;
11. You want to overcome this;
12. You want to be free;
13. You want to end this suffering;
14. You want to do better than your 6-7 months being porn free 20 years ago- you want to surpass that, and you can!
15. You don't want to pass this addiction down to your children;
16. You want to be an example to your children;
17. You want to be able to look your children in the eyes in all honesty, and tell them that you beat this thing.
Those are just 17 reasons that I could find in your own statements that show that you do want to overcome this thing, and I know that you can! I've felt the same way as yourself.
Just track your progress, as you're doing with your counter. Or, you can also keep a hard copy in a journal, if you have one. But, never give up. Find the strength in yourself, challenge yourself, don't take this lying down- you're much better than that. This thing cannot take your life, cannot take your family, your health, and your sanity.
God wills it, how can it be any different?
Fight this thing, as if you were fighting for your very life. But, learn to use the tools available, what we share here on the Nation, our strategies, our 'tricks', by which we, who are no different from yourself, have found freedom.
You're worth total freedom.