olafthewise
Active Member
wow! recommending divorce!
First of all, I have no income other than welfare to care for a special needs child. Also, when we make commitments, we need to put some weight on the commitments we make. I am a Christian. I know of Christian people who have lost jobs, kids, spouses, businesses, arms, legs, sight, etc. I cannot claim exclusivity on my depression. My depression is NOT clinical. It's situational. In other words, if the situation changes, so will my depression.
As for my wife, she got problems and I am not willing to abandon her on this. Neither do I ever have a trail of willing females waiting for me to become available to them.
Income: I could get a job at Walmart if necessary. Its just that my wife is indifferent on "manly" issues. The result is disrespect, which I am sensitive to now and do not allow her to just insult me and move on.
Also, I am no longer "pussy whipped." This is a term that all you guys should know; This is where a man wimps about the house doing every wife-list thing she wants, knowing that if he is good, he may be allowed to touch her butt or even her breast and if he's real good, she may allow him to have sex with her. Since my wife has Vaginismus, AND has made every excuse to not treat it, AND is prude about other sex acts AND says her shoulder/neck hurts so no hand job, I have very little options left. Porn at least gives me a willing nude girl. Unfortunately, porn is like heroin and ruins my mind, so I must stop.
If I divorced her, I would add another set of problems since my special needs child needs me. And we have little income as it is. So I am stuck with her. I am in grad school, online.
These are the last days of disrespect. Her time is up and I no longer go around doing chores for her and she is perplexed as to why I don't work around the house anymore, hmm.
First of all, I have no income other than welfare to care for a special needs child. Also, when we make commitments, we need to put some weight on the commitments we make. I am a Christian. I know of Christian people who have lost jobs, kids, spouses, businesses, arms, legs, sight, etc. I cannot claim exclusivity on my depression. My depression is NOT clinical. It's situational. In other words, if the situation changes, so will my depression.
As for my wife, she got problems and I am not willing to abandon her on this. Neither do I ever have a trail of willing females waiting for me to become available to them.
Income: I could get a job at Walmart if necessary. Its just that my wife is indifferent on "manly" issues. The result is disrespect, which I am sensitive to now and do not allow her to just insult me and move on.
Also, I am no longer "pussy whipped." This is a term that all you guys should know; This is where a man wimps about the house doing every wife-list thing she wants, knowing that if he is good, he may be allowed to touch her butt or even her breast and if he's real good, she may allow him to have sex with her. Since my wife has Vaginismus, AND has made every excuse to not treat it, AND is prude about other sex acts AND says her shoulder/neck hurts so no hand job, I have very little options left. Porn at least gives me a willing nude girl. Unfortunately, porn is like heroin and ruins my mind, so I must stop.
If I divorced her, I would add another set of problems since my special needs child needs me. And we have little income as it is. So I am stuck with her. I am in grad school, online.
These are the last days of disrespect. Her time is up and I no longer go around doing chores for her and she is perplexed as to why I don't work around the house anymore, hmm.