LarrySheets
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3 weeks clean! I feel really good.
I've found that even basic internet sites are loaded with triggers - news links at the bottom of the page, Facebook, etc. It is tough these days to go very far without encountering some form of sex being used to get one's attention. These triggers are getting a bit easier to avoid as time goes by, but there is definitely part of me that wants to use once and not have it be a major issue.
But that's the thing, I can't go back. This is the longest I've ever gone in my entire life without PMO and even without MO. In the past 5 years, I'd say that I wasn't able to MO just by myself without the stimulation of P. Right now, I don't think that would be an issue at all. There is some solace in knowing that - I honestly feel like a teenager again. But I wonder how destructive just MO is to my progress. For the time being, I'm going to avoid it altogether so that it doesn't bring me back.
I feel really good, though, psychologically. My approach with women is way better - I think that P really caused me to subconsiously always think about sex - like, all the time. I have been having happy and meaningful interactions with people without that hanging over my head.
The best part of this is that I am so happy that I have come so far. I had tried and failed to do this probably 20 times before. I can't really tell anyone except for this journal how glad I am and how hard it has been.
I've found that even basic internet sites are loaded with triggers - news links at the bottom of the page, Facebook, etc. It is tough these days to go very far without encountering some form of sex being used to get one's attention. These triggers are getting a bit easier to avoid as time goes by, but there is definitely part of me that wants to use once and not have it be a major issue.
But that's the thing, I can't go back. This is the longest I've ever gone in my entire life without PMO and even without MO. In the past 5 years, I'd say that I wasn't able to MO just by myself without the stimulation of P. Right now, I don't think that would be an issue at all. There is some solace in knowing that - I honestly feel like a teenager again. But I wonder how destructive just MO is to my progress. For the time being, I'm going to avoid it altogether so that it doesn't bring me back.
I feel really good, though, psychologically. My approach with women is way better - I think that P really caused me to subconsiously always think about sex - like, all the time. I have been having happy and meaningful interactions with people without that hanging over my head.
The best part of this is that I am so happy that I have come so far. I had tried and failed to do this probably 20 times before. I can't really tell anyone except for this journal how glad I am and how hard it has been.