NoPMO4Love
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I first tried a reboot that I started for the new year and it went well. I lasted about 2 weeks and then caved. Since caving, I keep caving every 1-3 days and just can't stop. :-\ The initial reason I started a reboot is because I could tell I was nowhere near as loving with my past 2 ex girlfriends as I should have been. I was not attentive and sex was either non existent or dull. Shortly after my most recent ex I tried having sex with a female and I could not get hard. That was the turning point and I knew I needed a reboot.
Since my failed attempt at rebooting, I've been extremely discouraged to continue on with it. I've quit writing in my blog and turn to PMO when I'm bored or lonely. I work from home 95% of the time and live alone which makes it extremely difficult. I know I can do it because I went two weeks without PMO and felt great, but caved when I was visiting another country and was feeling lonely in my hotel. I want to get back up on the horse and kick this thing in the rear end. I need help and motivation. I'm starting to feel like a fake as well, I post articles on social media about not watching porn and yet I fall victim to it on the daily. Please, help with this reboot so I can kick out this nasty habit for good!!!
Some of my triggers I am aware of:
Since my failed attempt at rebooting, I've been extremely discouraged to continue on with it. I've quit writing in my blog and turn to PMO when I'm bored or lonely. I work from home 95% of the time and live alone which makes it extremely difficult. I know I can do it because I went two weeks without PMO and felt great, but caved when I was visiting another country and was feeling lonely in my hotel. I want to get back up on the horse and kick this thing in the rear end. I need help and motivation. I'm starting to feel like a fake as well, I post articles on social media about not watching porn and yet I fall victim to it on the daily. Please, help with this reboot so I can kick out this nasty habit for good!!!
Some of my triggers I am aware of:
Dirty talk on Kik messenger (Which i delete and reinstall daily)
Yahoo trending section (Click on female names hoping there's a nude picture of them)
Lonely / Bored
Hot girls in skimpy clothing on Instagram