Here is an update: I called my sponsor and had a good talk with him...I was concerned that my behavior the weekend before should be considered a reset. He said that in his opinion it wasn't a reset but if I keep behaving in that way, it would lead to one quite soon. I was glad for his answer because I really don't want to have to start the counter over again but I wanted to make sure that I was being honest. I figure that if you are not honest with yourself then you really have nothing.
So the very next day, I was at it again. Not a good situation. This is not okay with me, and doesn't make my feel good about myself, I also think that it is counterproductive for my recovery. I phoned my sponsor again today to discuss this and we have come up with a plan. I am now going to add masturbation into my no go zone, what the SAA call the inner circle. While P has always been the vice MO is the gateway to it for me. So now any P any M or MO with be a reset...It is a pretty clear. I had been abstaining from M for a while because I thought it best...but never actually put it off limits and I think that was a mistake because once I started down that road again, it became compulsive.
I also had a discussion about abstaining from sex with my GF. I am concerned that it may be effecting my recovery as my addiction may be using sex with her to get a fix. What a horrible situation if that is happening. My sponsor suggested that perhaps taking a month off may be useful, but to talk with her to see. So I will have that discussion with my GF tonight and see what insights she may have.