drollbot,
I recently relapsed too.
Will power is not the key. Thinking that it is will just set you up for more failure. If you're just sitting in a room by yourself with wifi, you will eventually relapse.
Two things have helped me recently:
1.) Reading articles on ybop. I think doing this everyday if you're thinking about P/CEM, even for just a few minutes, can help. It reinforces what's really going on inside your brain.
2.) Working on my life. Looking at what I'm doing on an hour to hour and even minute to minute basis. How many times do you just innocuously open a web browser with no purpose in mind? How many times do you do that before web browsing "slides" into something more. I'm shocked at how many times I just pull out my phone and go though needless updates on all kinds of apps. It's dopamine in smaller doses. And it's more than useless. It's harmful.
I mean, you know all this. You say you're setting goals, which is great. Biking and talking to one girl a day sound healthy. But what are you doing in that down time at your government job? You can't be biking and talking to girls when you have no work to do and a CPU is just staring at you. When you're sitting there and the hours are whittling away, what are you going to work on? If you don't have something constructive or at least recreational, how long can your will power really last? A day? A month?
I'm trying to focus on the positives... what I want my life to look like, specific things I'm going to do to get it there, and what I'm going to specifically do each day.
Anyway, great job on getting back on the horse so quickly, and good luck the rest of the week.