1st day
Yesterday I slipped and relapsed. Otherwise today would be my 117th day. I know the reasons which lead me to PMO. I also knew the danger, yet I underestimated it. But I am not mad at myself.
In two days it will be my one year anniversary since I discovered I am porn addict. During all that time I tried many ways how to fight it, but for a long time I wasn't much successful.
Now I proudly tell I am glad for this addiction, through I never want to repeat it again. You may ask why the hell should I be proud for something that was ruining my life for so long? Thanks to it I am not the same person I was a year ago. I am better. Much better. And I know I will beat it, it just take little longer.
Before the discovering I was asking myself all the time, what have I done wrong that I must suffer so much? Also I was full of excuses why this and that can't be done and I was rather locked it my bedroom wasting my time. I fell for this addiction and I am the only one have to beat it. Nobody won't do that for me, only myself.
I used every single day of last 116 days to be better person. I am meditating, working out, I am reading books. I have a list of 60 books (to this day) I want to read. Since March I borrowed 15 books, I read them aloud and half of them twice. I am trying be better in writing so I started my personal journal where I write once per three days at least. I am talking with my family more, I found a job so after time I can live on my own. With my friends we are working on one project and I have few others.
Thanks to all of that I feel alive and I like myself! And it's an amazing feeling. Yesterday I fell, but I stand up and fight more. I don't give up. That word is not in my vocabulary anymore. I wake up every morning to be better that yesterday. All that will help me overcome this addiction. And this approach will help me with my life.
You have that strength in yourself too.