MrDude - that's awesome. sent it to my wife and we used olive oil and mayonnaise in her hair this week! Probably first time every someone has discussed lice on a PMO forum hahaha.
Anyway...
Day 18:
Guys - I'm really, really excited to say I've been EIGHTEEN days without an orgasm. I'm honestly not sure if I've every done that in my life (since puberty). It's been exhilarating. Hard, but awesome.
Here's what I've learned so far:
- My wife and I have rewired a couple of times, by kissing, touching, fondeling. She's brought me close, but not to the point of O. And it's been INCREDIBLE. We thought at first it would make things harder, but instead it's made me feel closer to her and it's helped the urges ease. It's been fantastic for intimacy are well.
- My penis is extremely sensitive to her touch, which I love. She can barely touch me and it drives me crazy. Granted, it's been almost 3 weeks since an O, but still, I think it's also due to rebooting.
- My love and appreciation for my wife has deepened significantly. We're in a post-pregnancy phase where sex is not frequent anyway, and instead of frustration about that, it's heightened my sense of awareness of who she is and what she means to me which is awesome.
- I have felt stronger, more focused and significantly more confident at work. My head is clearer.
- I use sex and orgasms to make myself feel better. Now that that has been temporarily suspended in my life, I've had to find other things to turn to, which has been good.
- I've made sex WAY too big of a deal in my life and marriage, and this has helped downsize it back to a normal size. Good for me and very good for my wife.
I'm so ready for day 30 to be here, and i'm SO ready to have sex. But you know what...life isn't all about sex. And this has been good for me.
Grateful for what God is doing in my life. Thanks for your support fellas!