fyg
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07:00 = MO... I'm not gonna reset my counter just yet, as thinking it through...
Struggled to sleep last night, which may be many things. The loss of my friend, essay deadlines, horniness from testosterone peak, women seen over last couple of days, sugar consumed last night (trying to give up sugar) and poor eating in the day (no greens or veg), dehydrated from the days previous's hangover.
I was edging, very briefly (but most likely as I couldn't sleep/bout of one-night-insomnia, damn!) but knew it was risky. MO was to fantasy - but to a woman I know, and have held a libidinal torch for, for a few years now. I see her now-and-again, and it reminds. It's a similar recurring fantasy that comes to me, it's difficult to shake off, as it's fueled by new interaction with the person. But know I shouldn't go there, as it's been bound-up, somehow as one of the compounds that lead to relapse, in the past - it's complicated, right?! Again, referencing Boo - who advised the other day that MO'ing to fantasy was "dancing with the devil", and could lead to PMO, in this case, could very well be true (though didn't necessarily agree the other day) Must be vigilant! This time, as with my MO last testosterone peak, hardly needed any friction, whatsoever!
Also, edged, using the friction of bedding!! a couple of hours later, almost to O. The 'almost O', actually gave me a feeling of relaxedness/completion close to that of which O sometimes gives. Making me question the definition of an O!
Finally, also found that lying in bed when I'm not sleeping (usually in the morning after wake - but this was not being able to sleep last night/this morning) is a trigger too - as there is some struggle between me wanting to get out of bed, and not getting out of bed, which can lead to MO, certainly in the past. But, I felt it this early AM, maybe next time, get out of bed, sit in a chair with a relaxing hot drink and read a little????
Anyways, apologies for this detailed and possibly boring, bit angsty, analytical reading.
Cheers
Struggled to sleep last night, which may be many things. The loss of my friend, essay deadlines, horniness from testosterone peak, women seen over last couple of days, sugar consumed last night (trying to give up sugar) and poor eating in the day (no greens or veg), dehydrated from the days previous's hangover.
I was edging, very briefly (but most likely as I couldn't sleep/bout of one-night-insomnia, damn!) but knew it was risky. MO was to fantasy - but to a woman I know, and have held a libidinal torch for, for a few years now. I see her now-and-again, and it reminds. It's a similar recurring fantasy that comes to me, it's difficult to shake off, as it's fueled by new interaction with the person. But know I shouldn't go there, as it's been bound-up, somehow as one of the compounds that lead to relapse, in the past - it's complicated, right?! Again, referencing Boo - who advised the other day that MO'ing to fantasy was "dancing with the devil", and could lead to PMO, in this case, could very well be true (though didn't necessarily agree the other day) Must be vigilant! This time, as with my MO last testosterone peak, hardly needed any friction, whatsoever!
Also, edged, using the friction of bedding!! a couple of hours later, almost to O. The 'almost O', actually gave me a feeling of relaxedness/completion close to that of which O sometimes gives. Making me question the definition of an O!
Finally, also found that lying in bed when I'm not sleeping (usually in the morning after wake - but this was not being able to sleep last night/this morning) is a trigger too - as there is some struggle between me wanting to get out of bed, and not getting out of bed, which can lead to MO, certainly in the past. But, I felt it this early AM, maybe next time, get out of bed, sit in a chair with a relaxing hot drink and read a little????
Anyways, apologies for this detailed and possibly boring, bit angsty, analytical reading.
Cheers