Coming to some difficult conclusions

sonofJack

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...but don't stay pissed; definitely don't be pissed with yourself, but with your actions. There is a very distinct difference in the two.
 

Tclay

Active Member
Yea.  I guess I get it.  I was pissed because i was not prepared for the situation I was in.  I need to be prepared for every possible situation. 
 

Tclay

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savingmysoul
It went good.  Friday and Sunday wife and I had some intamate time.  I can say with conviction now that a PMO event does not set you back to zero.  I think I had enough time off PMO that I didn't reset the neurological pathways. 

Back on the road again.  I'm not so ticked anymore.  Things seem better.

Thanks for asking. 

How are things with you?
 

savingmysoul

Active Member
Things are good, and getting better.  No urges, no pining, no nothing.  175 days today.

Have been able to be very intimate with my wife as of late, seems physically and more importantly mentally things are improving very well.

Long road still ahead, but no doubt committed.

Glad to see you have been able to turn a negative into positive energy.
 

LTE

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savingmysoul said:
Things are good, and getting better.  No urges, no pining, no nothing.  175 days today.

Have been able to be very intimate with my wife as of late, seems physically and more importantly mentally things are improving very well.

Long road still ahead, but no doubt committed.

Glad to see you have been able to turn a negative into positive energy.

Great to hear. It takes a while, but things do get better.
 

Tclay

Active Member
Man I appreciate you guys.  While I'm pretty sure a divorce was not on tap, there was certainly a long dry patch with no change on the horizon.  Giving up PMO has added so much to my life already (almost 3 months).  Thanks for propping me up when I needed it.
 

savingmysoul

Active Member
Glad we are here for you - but in the end, take the credit for propping yourself up.

You are the one getting through this -

stay strong
 
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