PeaceOfMind062012
Active Member
Hey everyone!
It's been awhile since I last posted, and I apologize for not being more on top of keeping my account active. However I have some good excuses! Lol. I want to say right off the bat though that I have NOT relapsed since the last time I wrote that I relapsed like a little more than a month ago, so that's fuckin' awesome, and I'm super proud of that! I've certainly been tempted on more than one occasion (probably about 5 times since I last relapsed, right before I went to bed I was pretty close to just saying 'fuck it' and giving in to watching P. Anyway I didn't give in, and I'm super proud of myself for that.
So, now to the excuses! Haha.
Well a big change that happened in my life recently was that I moved into a new apartment at the beginning of October! I had been living with roommates for the last year and a half up until I moved out and now I'm living all by myself!! I can't believe it! It's a beautiful thing! I absolutely love living by myself! It's great! I can set the pace at which I do things, I can play music late, I can masturbate and make noise when I do it without fear that anyone will hear me! Lol, or I can just talk to myself out loud completely honestly without limitation, thinking that people will think I'm weird. So, yeah, I'm pretty psyched to have my own place!
So that's basically my one big excuse for not writing: moving in kept me busy for the first few weeks, and plus I was sick while moving, so that made it difficult to do anything except move and make sure I was resting up to be able to make it to work and give a good effort at work. And then the last month has been just busy with continuing to work and also move in fully to my new place.
So?? overall I've been good! I've been MO-Ing fairly regularly, maybe 2-4 times a week. And I've been getting fairly consistent erections! I've also been waking up in the morning with morning wood probably about 4 times in the last month. Last night I woke up in the middle of the night with a pretty big erection and just kind of humped the bed a little bit cuz it felt good! lol. I've actually never had a wet dream, ever! I feel that that's possibly because I started MO-ing and PMO-ing at such an early age, and that my body/mind were so accustomed to P that it wasn't sensitive enough to need to have a wet dream. But I'm thinking that maybe as I reboot my brain, and as I get more and more morning woods / wake up in the night with a boner, that maybe some day I might have a wet dream. Fingers crossed!
Another big piece of news is that I actually HAD SEX about a month ago!! It had been like a year since the last time I did, so that's friggin amazing! It was after a party. I started making out with this girl at a party, and then we went back to her place, and made out more, and I went down on her, and then we had intercourse. I have to say: I definitely had some trouble getting it up, but I feel that that's not only from PIED. I was also drunk, and I had to concentrate on putting on a condom, which often makes it difficult for me to keep an erection, because I have to focus on this task, and also I feel like the other person is waiting and expecting you to get it right. Lol. Anyway slight performance anxiety, as well as being drunk, which I find sometimes definitely makes it more difficult to get it up. However, having said that, I was able to get it up enough to be able to have intercourse. It was really nice! Even if we didn't have intercourse for a long time, and even if I didn't have the hardest erection, it was really nice just to be making out and being intimate with a naked woman! It had been awhile, but I hope it won't be awhile until the next time. But I kind of don't have the greatest 'game' with women all the time. Like I feel that if all you want to do is have sex, then they can pick up on that, and it probably makes it less likely that you will have sex! It's almost like you have to just focus on other things, and not really care if you get to have sex or not, and then it's probably more likely that you will have sex! Lol. A funny little paradox
Anyway, that's what's been happening in my world. I'm still on the no PMO track!
Oh, and in answer to your question, Jack Can, that's a good question about why I don't just completely quit alcohol outright. I dunno, that would probably be a good thing to try at some point, but I have to say, I do enjoy it - I love the taste, I like the effect it has on me, and for the most part, I don't do things that I regret while under its influence, that just happens on occasion. I dunno, that might change in the future (like it might become more of a problem), but for now I enjoy it, so I'm going to focus all of my "getting rid of an addiction power" on staying away from and keeping P out of my life
Hope you're all well!
-Peace
It's been awhile since I last posted, and I apologize for not being more on top of keeping my account active. However I have some good excuses! Lol. I want to say right off the bat though that I have NOT relapsed since the last time I wrote that I relapsed like a little more than a month ago, so that's fuckin' awesome, and I'm super proud of that! I've certainly been tempted on more than one occasion (probably about 5 times since I last relapsed, right before I went to bed I was pretty close to just saying 'fuck it' and giving in to watching P. Anyway I didn't give in, and I'm super proud of myself for that.
So, now to the excuses! Haha.
Well a big change that happened in my life recently was that I moved into a new apartment at the beginning of October! I had been living with roommates for the last year and a half up until I moved out and now I'm living all by myself!! I can't believe it! It's a beautiful thing! I absolutely love living by myself! It's great! I can set the pace at which I do things, I can play music late, I can masturbate and make noise when I do it without fear that anyone will hear me! Lol, or I can just talk to myself out loud completely honestly without limitation, thinking that people will think I'm weird. So, yeah, I'm pretty psyched to have my own place!
So that's basically my one big excuse for not writing: moving in kept me busy for the first few weeks, and plus I was sick while moving, so that made it difficult to do anything except move and make sure I was resting up to be able to make it to work and give a good effort at work. And then the last month has been just busy with continuing to work and also move in fully to my new place.
So?? overall I've been good! I've been MO-Ing fairly regularly, maybe 2-4 times a week. And I've been getting fairly consistent erections! I've also been waking up in the morning with morning wood probably about 4 times in the last month. Last night I woke up in the middle of the night with a pretty big erection and just kind of humped the bed a little bit cuz it felt good! lol. I've actually never had a wet dream, ever! I feel that that's possibly because I started MO-ing and PMO-ing at such an early age, and that my body/mind were so accustomed to P that it wasn't sensitive enough to need to have a wet dream. But I'm thinking that maybe as I reboot my brain, and as I get more and more morning woods / wake up in the night with a boner, that maybe some day I might have a wet dream. Fingers crossed!
Another big piece of news is that I actually HAD SEX about a month ago!! It had been like a year since the last time I did, so that's friggin amazing! It was after a party. I started making out with this girl at a party, and then we went back to her place, and made out more, and I went down on her, and then we had intercourse. I have to say: I definitely had some trouble getting it up, but I feel that that's not only from PIED. I was also drunk, and I had to concentrate on putting on a condom, which often makes it difficult for me to keep an erection, because I have to focus on this task, and also I feel like the other person is waiting and expecting you to get it right. Lol. Anyway slight performance anxiety, as well as being drunk, which I find sometimes definitely makes it more difficult to get it up. However, having said that, I was able to get it up enough to be able to have intercourse. It was really nice! Even if we didn't have intercourse for a long time, and even if I didn't have the hardest erection, it was really nice just to be making out and being intimate with a naked woman! It had been awhile, but I hope it won't be awhile until the next time. But I kind of don't have the greatest 'game' with women all the time. Like I feel that if all you want to do is have sex, then they can pick up on that, and it probably makes it less likely that you will have sex! It's almost like you have to just focus on other things, and not really care if you get to have sex or not, and then it's probably more likely that you will have sex! Lol. A funny little paradox
Anyway, that's what's been happening in my world. I'm still on the no PMO track!
Oh, and in answer to your question, Jack Can, that's a good question about why I don't just completely quit alcohol outright. I dunno, that would probably be a good thing to try at some point, but I have to say, I do enjoy it - I love the taste, I like the effect it has on me, and for the most part, I don't do things that I regret while under its influence, that just happens on occasion. I dunno, that might change in the future (like it might become more of a problem), but for now I enjoy it, so I'm going to focus all of my "getting rid of an addiction power" on staying away from and keeping P out of my life
Hope you're all well!
-Peace